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Fitness Fiascos
Caught in a blizzard with a broadcast gone awry, we still found our way from YouTube mishaps to Instagram live, all while welcoming back the ever-missed Brittany.
Armed with hot takes and nostalgia, we charged through a series of candid conversations that would make even the Saiyans proud. As we shared our favorite karaoke moments, RIP Shigeichi Negishi the inventor of karaoke; we also dove headfirst into the controversy surrounding Planet Fitness and their gender identity policy, unpacking the complexities of inclusivity with a blend of seriousness and respect.
As our episode journeyed towards its close, we turned our gaze inward, reflecting on the intimate intricacies of relationship dynamics and the personal quest for contentment. From influencer aspirations to the choice of a childfree life, we peeled back layers of societal expectations to reveal the core of our individual ambitions and desires. The episode closed on a note of friendship and growth, where we celebrated personal breakthroughs, embraced the art of receiving compliments, and anticipated the love and adventures awaiting us just around the corner. Join us for an episode brimming with laughter, debates, and profound insights that just might stir your soul.
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Speaker 4:Everybody that I knew from the go. I know hoes, that was right, but they knew they was wrong Like it.
Speaker 5:You sounded like a game show host.
Speaker 3:This is the Minority Plus One Podcast.
Speaker 1:Chill Plus One Podcast Cheer up.
Speaker 3:What's going on, everybody, and welcome to the show with the king of the hefferies. It's Oreo. We are back once again podcasting to you and, as always, we got the ladies. Yes, you, we got the ladies. Yes you, darlings, tell them who are you it's sam crystal, it's bernie and I'm your host, steve.
Speaker 3:And this is the minority, plus one podcast, chill. So okay, guys, one super late. What steven's bad me, I messed this up, guys. So obviously, guys, we were supposed to record this on saturday. Up in upstate new york we had something super crazy happen yeah, it was looking like.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it was.
Speaker 5:Yeah, we had a winter and nowhere else, nowhere else in new york, newberg, down the city didn't get any snow, it was just cold and rainy and we got a full-blown blizzard I wasn't mad at it but but um, I also promised everybody that, since we couldn't do it saturday, that we were gonna do the episode live on youtube today. Today, which is monday, which is monday that.
Speaker 3:So I did not know that we couldn't just hit the button and go. I didn't know that either. So I, goofed up, was telling everybody hey guys, we're gonna be live on youtube, make sure you tune in. I did a fucking event post.
Speaker 4:All this shit. I was just looking at your event, shit.
Speaker 3:I did all this shit and now we got to do it like normal, but that's not bad. I'm actually trying to send news to everybody. If you're watching on YouTube, you see this camera right here. It's because I'm also live on Instagram, so they can actually tune in.
Speaker 4:This is on minority plus one page or you're. This is online for right now so stevencoilsc on instagram if you want to watch the live.
Speaker 3:No motherfucking gimmick needed well, it's saying we're not live on here now, so it's not that.
Speaker 5:So it's just but, for instance, if they want to watch it live, that's what I'm saying, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:So now, we can start doing like I'm gonna start doing this shit now. So I'm trying to get us out there for like more things. So be patient with me as I multitask between these two things until we get something uh, more, uh concrete. And actually, because we just kind of made this shit up as we went today. But, ladies, how are you today? Cool britney, welcome back, doing good, how are you? It's been, uh, it's been a few weeks.
Speaker 4:It has it really has it has I missed, you guys no, you didn't. I did. I didn't feel it oh, fuck you oh, I love you too you didn't feel it when you came into the dispensary and I was like Steve oh, I'm so glad you brought that up.
Speaker 3:So so you know how she was coming at my throat, because I was like yo, I had to get my weed from somewhere else one time yeah, and she's like yo yeah, she's like yo.
Speaker 4:How dare you fair?
Speaker 3:enough super dangerous. I didn't say it was smart why did you have to do it? Though, because I was just desperate and I didn't feel like going all the way to connected uh steve, you have a car, it's 30.
Speaker 5:Yeah, it's like really 25 minutes, like come on steve and you could have. You could have made a kind of a thing out of it. You could have went to the dispensary, go get some food out there or something and then go home.
Speaker 4:You know, you could have hit me up, you could have made me smoke, really.
Speaker 1:Brett, you don't know Really, so you haven't been anywhere else.
Speaker 3:What do you mean? Oh yeah, Steven found out a nice little nugget. Steven found out a nice little nugget at the dispensary what'd you find? Out what would you like? Anyway, you didn't find out to another dispensary.
Speaker 4:I go see other dispensaries. Yes, do I make purchases one time? Yeah, don't lie one time I'm gonna tell you, I only did it one other time because, um, and I'm talking about I'm talking about if I'm away, like that doesn't count, but I'm talking about in the area I went to one other one when they had first opened. I checked out stage one dispensary because it was the only other dispensary to open after us. And, um, for everybody who doesn't know, I work at upstate, upstate upstate but where's this other place you're talking?
Speaker 4:the other one was in rents lear. So, um, my boss at the time she was like yo I want you to go check out their pickup and see how they're doing and go check out.
Speaker 5:Oh yeah, I was trying to steal some, but of course you know, just kind of go and observe in albany baby, but no.
Speaker 4:I'm Steve. I don't play. Everybody knows who's close to me. If I find out, you're going to another dispensary.
Speaker 3:Look, I'm loyal, I am very loyal.
Speaker 4:What the fuck you gonna do? You ain't gonna do shit.
Speaker 5:I am loyal To Upstate Canada and everybody knows that.
Speaker 3:Hold on, you don't give me credit for just going to the streets. I went to the streets instead of another legit dealer.
Speaker 5:I went to the streets right, first and foremost.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yo I felt it wasn't like I was feeding another company. I was feeding streets.
Speaker 4:You're right, I mean technically. I mean technically they're independent. Wait, they're independent business.
Speaker 5:Okay, and technically.
Speaker 4:You know what. I'd rather see you in the streets.
Speaker 5:You'd rather see me?
Speaker 4:in the streets than be in the fucking. In another safe, exactly, exactly, pretty safe In the streets for you.
Speaker 5:Put your whole ass on the streets, don't you be in the house?
Speaker 4:I'm telling you, as more places open up, it all is going to be about our name, our brand name and brand awareness and our customers, but definitely a loyalty, you know. So we need, so you need a loyalty program. We need our loyalty. But when New York allows us to have a loyalty program, need our loyalty all right, but when new york allows us to have a loyalty program, we will have it. But you know, we have so many people coming up like yo, like I'm not going to give this dispensary away, all right. And um, one of the one of the uh, these girls I know she just started working at a dispensary down in albany. I'm not gonna to say the name. Wait, there's one in Albany. Yeah, just opened up around downtown. So I went and observed. It was cute. It's a very, very cute place. It's a cute spot, but niggas was handing out samples.
Speaker 5:Was it really? And you?
Speaker 4:missed it. Oh, that is not allowed, and I was like you know, I want to be like and she took one of the samples.
Speaker 2:This uh loud, and I was like you know, I actually took one of the samples. This is illegal. I mean, I did, I did take the fucking. This is illegal. I did take the care.
Speaker 4:I came late so it was my fault. Had I came earlier, I probably would have had some dope ass samples, but at the time I came I had some care all the good shit was gone yeah, all the good shit was like. First of all I was like I don't know, this is fucked up, I should report.
Speaker 5:But then the other I was like damn, I didn't get no good samples, yo you're giving it?
Speaker 4:you ask me, you karen, don't you karen?
Speaker 5:as you get the free samples talking about, you know what samples out there I am, I'm upset, I'm upstate through and through baby and I don't want to have to snitch, I don't want to have to snitch, god forbid.
Speaker 4:She's going to be like I'm going to stick with that. I'm going to stick with that. We are honestly, we are. I've never, I've never been as content in a place as. I have been where I am. I feel like we're coming up on a year now, april 1st is our one year anniversary. One year.
Speaker 2:Oh, wow.
Speaker 4:We're throwing a party Uh, of course we're throwing a four 20 party. Um, I feel like we have really gelled into such a a close knit um team. A lot of them have known each other for so many years, so a lot of them are family already already. But I feel like they've slowly just like kind of bought me into their little family and it's been, it's been great. So I I cannot say enough good things about upstate, but not only, not only from me being behind the scenes. I still feel like our menu and our selection is it's steadily growing.
Speaker 3:It's still growing, like every time I go over there.
Speaker 4:Okay, we're always, we always are upping our selections, upping our product menu, um, always getting new things, and then, um, our prices are good. I, I can go into these newer shops and be like, okay, like I, I like the style, I like the setup, you guys have a lot of stuff. But, like, when it comes down to the nitty-gritty of like the prices and how much you're going to spend, we get it, we get it.
Speaker 5:You know, we get it. You like your job, it's worth it. It's worth it. Hey, that's important? I don't think it's that far, it's really not that far?
Speaker 3:I don't think it's that far.
Speaker 5:I don't think y'all understand how lazy I am. No, we're not throwing it out.
Speaker 5:yes, oh my god, steve, that's first off, first off, that's lightweight you probably pee in snapper bottles instead of walking to the bathroom yes, you do, yes, you do, hold on, that's gross old steven I'm first of all my ex. All right, I do not do that now dick to just whip it out my first boyfriend's brother used to do that and one time like he opened his door and I see fucking snapple bottle throwing it out? No, it would just be in his room and the bathroom was literally one step away from his.
Speaker 4:That's just laziness. We're not no Steve, but you just admitted. I said old Steven, you needed to fucking pee. I'm saying lazy to the point where he we're just talking about you don't even want to get up out of bed and pee. That's crazy.
Speaker 5:No, I'm not that way. That part is crazy steve. No, I'm not that lazy. You just admitted to the dirty pizza box underneath the bed.
Speaker 3:I know like if I go and I'm getting a few slices and I'm eating in bed and I got the crumbs on me. Yeah, it goes on the floor and then it happens to go underneath. There.
Speaker 4:It happens sometimes and I clean up and I get it I'm not comfortable in. So that would be so nice to just like I didn't say I do it all the time.
Speaker 3:I'm telling you that it's happened, yeah, okay.
Speaker 5:Anyway, but let's move on. Yes, you want to get into um minority support.
Speaker 3:Oh shit, yeah.
Speaker 5:All right, y'all. So minority support is a segment we do when we read listeners comments and questions this week and actually guys on live. If you have any questions, you can we'll try to answer them as they come in, but, producer, wait, could you pull up?
Speaker 3:so anybody watching on instagram, you guys have any questions for us? You already know so last week's episode.
Speaker 5:Uh, we did our tribute to dragon ball z our guy leo he puts uh roshi is the og perv yes, he is hashtag nasty digging notice he is. He is um. Leo also puts love, love, love, love this episode. Who doesn't love a good anime chat? Yes, yes.
Speaker 3:Excuse me, but yo yo, he did flame you a little bit, he was correct.
Speaker 5:No, I'm going to explain myself. Okay, so he put a moment of silence and a spirit bomb. I totally forgot about spirit bomb.
Speaker 1:That's forever bow.
Speaker 5:That took forever um rip akara akira akira toriyama. May your spirit continue to live on. See you on the other side of the world tournament, along with the other heroes. Oh, that's so sweet that's beautiful um. So he puts because, guys, last week we just, like we said, we did a anime tribute, mostly a dragon ball z tribute. He puts top five heroes goku, vegeta, piccolo, gohan tn.
Speaker 3:Honorable mention, dragon ball z yo, you almost got, I almost commented on that, just for the disrespect to trunks. Uh, the fact that you got I mean look, look, look, everybody has their the fact that you have Tien above Trunks, my man Leo.
Speaker 5:All right Come on man. Top five villains Frieza Cell Cooler, goku Black, super Buu oh my.
Speaker 3:God, I fucking forgot about Goku Black.
Speaker 5:We talked a little bit about him. No, we didn't, I didn't know. He was a villain, though no.
Speaker 4:I haven't seen him.
Speaker 3:Black is actually evil goku taken over. I was gonna. I was like is goku black supposed to?
Speaker 5:be fucking, and then, and then, and then I know he has a uh see, there's a whole thing a supreme kai, like earring or something. Yes, um, oh damn. He even got us like cc. He's not saying you aren't a real fan, but he put original transformations. Uh, original, super saiyan gohan I said these damn you gotta read the rest, because I gotta be.
Speaker 3:Uh, it's say gohan super, saiyan 2, goku super saiyan 4, dragon ball, gt, which I mentioned, sam goku, ultra instinct and uh frieza, stages two and four and golden, okay, and he puts crystal how you gonna start the pod wearing goku gear Looking fire, by the way, thank you. That was a fire outfit.
Speaker 5:A token Wrong. Franchise Disappointed Actually. Leo Yep Tell him Leo Street. Fighter.
Speaker 3:Hold on.
Speaker 5:Street Fighter is an anime video game. It is what you didn't know that it's an anime video game.
Speaker 3:They're anime characters they have shows and movies that are, but I'm pretty sure the games came out first and then the movie, so it doesn't make it an anime you know how okay, for example, mortal kombat.
Speaker 5:They use real people, right yes dragon balls. Uh, excuse me, uh, street fighter, didn't? They're all drawn like anime characters. You never noticed that?
Speaker 3:yeah, so it was fucking bugs bunny's adventure. That doesn't make it anime. Anime no bugs bunny adventure is not drawn in no damn anime.
Speaker 5:What the hell are you talking?
Speaker 3:about.
Speaker 5:I'm just saying it's drawn as regular as looney tunes. Shut the fuck up. Anyway. The reason why I did okay, because it was the first thing that came out of my, my brain, because you can't front they both do this yes, but um honestly it was. It was basically because I we're doing an anime franchise, but but for anime we ended it with the kamehameha, so we should have gotten credit for that yeah, y'all, you ain't saying nothing and we did a real slow real slow yeah, and steve didn't get to do the.
Speaker 5:Oh, you can I?
Speaker 3:wasn't going to, and now because again we were talking about dragon ball, but yeah, but I mentioned street fighter when we're talking dragon I know, but it's all anime, it's all love.
Speaker 5:But yes, when I did I don't get.
Speaker 3:I didn't be like fuck, I should have said so it is what it is, but thanks, guys you could have did hold on senko, you could have did final flash, which, by the way, they you know what Leo. Here you go, leo, all right, top five In this video. I want your top five finishing moves that means Final. Flash from Dragon Ball, final Flash, the moves like Final Flash, the command may wave the spirit, bomb things like that.
Speaker 5:I'm talking about people's final life. What about Trunks killing Frieza with the medieval sword? Is that a finishing move? It actually is I mean he doesn't say nothing, but it's a finishing move.
Speaker 3:Yes, and then he does the thing and then he blew him up, so that could be yeah that's a finishing move.
Speaker 5:Yeah, all right, all right, uh, thank you, leo. Yeah, is there any questions on there? Steve, nope, okay, um so you want to get into hey, hey, hold on um, so let's get into. You want to get into? Uh, guess what friend is steve?
Speaker 5:yeah let's do it all right, guess what friend is this segment we do, and we uh choose a video that represents herself or the other two. Last week it was mine, so so give britney the earbud, because she's got to hear this one. Um, this is for people who have cousins, siblings. I want you to guess, and anybody on live, if you're still watching, guess who this clip represents.
Speaker 3:They can't see the video though.
Speaker 5:They can hear it no.
Speaker 3:Oh no, they can't.
Speaker 5:That's okay, tune in They'll tune in. All right, go ahead Producer Bay and the sound is off.
Speaker 2:It is stuff that I gave you. I gave you what you wanted, you don't. You don't give me what I wanted, but it's stuff to eat and you're gonna stab me over some pizza.
Speaker 1:Oh, I remember this, are you serious, you're?
Speaker 2:gonna stab me over some pizza. Oh, I remember Some pizza. Are you dead ass right now? You're gonna kill me over some pizza.
Speaker 4:I gave you pizza, but you don't give me pizza.
Speaker 2:That shit's deep bro. That's deep. All right, bro, but it's All right. I don't want to share that pizza. There's other stuff to eat in here. You really going to kill me over some pizza? My nigga, you going to pull out a knife on me over some fucking pizza? Yes, I gave you pizza, all right. That's cause your fucking dad bought that for you, cause it was left on the air here.
Speaker 3:I need to get this passionate about something like he is about pizza do you wanna die?
Speaker 2:go, put the fucking knife down. If I slap the shot at you, I'll fuck that kid up go put it down see, this is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:This is why you gotta beat kids I forgot.
Speaker 5:I said that. Uh, yeah, I missed the part. He's like you, stupid fat bitch. Oh yeah, that's right, okay. Okay, steve, who did you say it was? I think you said it was you or it could be any one of us. Nobody else had a guess this week.
Speaker 3:I said it was Britt. All right, I said I could see Britt doing it.
Speaker 5:Oh, yeah, he did say you would stab somebody over some pizza or some shit like that.
Speaker 1:Not over pizza, but over something.
Speaker 4:Not pizza. Not pizza, but something that she loved.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but yes, I have a gut feeling the blades would come out. Then I did say, partially me, okay, partially, but I could also see you too, sam, because that puerto rican in you it's like knives. Come with your baby diapers all right, steve wait, was that after watching the clip.
Speaker 5:Who do you think that clip represents? So this is, this is all. Three of us are the oldest, yep, so this is imagine this being who would react like this to their younger son.
Speaker 3:Oh, I'll definitely tell my kid, my brother, I'll punch him in the face.
Speaker 5:So, steve, your guess is Brittany, or yourself or me, but mostly Brittany. What about you, brittany?
Speaker 4:I've never. First of all, my brother actually really did come to me with a knife before he really did.
Speaker 5:He chased me around the house with a fucking knife.
Speaker 4:So that's some real shit. I never took a knife to that nigga who doesn't represent but for real. Uh, it could be, honestly, it could be me, who knows okay, see, and you thought she was gonna get mad I'm not making making chocolate chip cookie. It could be possible, who knows?
Speaker 3:like inside you were like all right. Like I shared a story like um when I was living with my buddy yeah, he ate my baby carrots yeah, we know, and I was really looking forward because, you said you waited, you were working all day.
Speaker 5:I worked all day. You were thinking about those and I was thinking about those baby carrots all day and then, then they were gone.
Speaker 3:And then I went home and my baby carrots were not only not there, but they were cooking in a pot.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, they took all my roommates.
Speaker 3:They took all my fucking baby carrots.
Speaker 5:Crunchy, but hold that thought and we're back.
Speaker 3:All right, so for this week, okay um that clip represents. Say it Britney, I knew it, I knew it.
Speaker 5:I told you I can see her being a little girl and like her brother. No, actually, I can see her brother be like yo. I'm gonna fucking stab you if you don't give me the fucking gushers and some shit. And her being like are you serious? You know, like the way she talks, recording it. Are you serious? Put it down jordan. Put it down and fuck you up jordan I um, I was rarely the aggressor.
Speaker 4:My brother had anger issues. Really, yeah, he used to whoop your ass. I mean, no, please calm down. She said you ain't shit, you can't fight you can't even lift a pinky pussy pussy.
Speaker 5:Little bitch, you had to get a knife on a bitch you had to get a knife on a bitch punk ass you a fat punk. You had to get a knife. You had to get a knife on a bitch. You had to get a knife on a bitch Punk A you a fat punk Stupid fat bitch Stupid fat bitch. How you call your little brother stupid fat bitch.
Speaker 2:Yo, yo, yo, Come on, you got a knife to me.
Speaker 3:I'm a you lucky. That's all you getting called I didn't curse back then.
Speaker 4:Remember, like I, you lucky, that's all. You get called.
Speaker 5:I didn't curse back then. Remember I was raised in church so you never cursed on the low I used to. My grandmother caught me.
Speaker 3:You never called somebody a scumbag, no.
Speaker 5:My grandmother caught me cursing at my aunt. I was staying with my grandmother for the summer and my aunt wouldn't hang out with me and I used to be like you, stupid fucking bitch, I can't stand that slut. And and I used to be like stupid fucking bitch, I can't stand that slut. And my grandmother called my mom and was like you know Samantha's cursing I know bruh. And my mom was like the fuck, you're cursing the fuck through her and she curses me out.
Speaker 4:Like where do you think I got it from, bitch? I hate that shit. I hate that shit. My son's probably going to be doing that.
Speaker 3:He'll be like um, I was just told that's a cuss in public.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I told you.
Speaker 2:That's a fucking cuss.
Speaker 5:I've never had to say that. Watch your fucking mouth.
Speaker 4:Are you fucking kidding me? I hate that shit. No, I really. I'm like what the what are you doing? I know right, like hello. Why are you cursing at him? Because I can cursing at him because I can.
Speaker 3:That's what I do, that's what I was always told.
Speaker 4:That's what I tell people.
Speaker 3:I'm like listen I can do this. You fucking can't. When you pay a bill nigga you fucking talk.
Speaker 5:I guess you could say that, I guess you know, I guess you could follow up with that.
Speaker 4:We have to break that actually no, no, but that is not okay.
Speaker 1:People need to understand there's higher peace to be like that. There's a higher.
Speaker 4:I agree I understand, but you can't be like shut the fuck up, little nigga. Like that's literally. He's literally saying when you pay a fucking bill around here like I don't know, when you fucking people around here I agree with that like, like come
Speaker 5:on like no shade, let's break that shade. You know I'm a step mom's now and I asked, uh, one of the boys. I said, hey, can you put the ketchup back? And he said why? And I wanted to be like because I fucking said but instead I explained to him because it has to be refrigerated.
Speaker 1:You know that's very, very mature, because immediately.
Speaker 3:I just want to, because I didn't, I didn't ask you, why do it?
Speaker 4:so that's why I say explain myself.
Speaker 3:See, this is what I'm trying to say, yo, this is like I'm glad we're talking about that because it does lead into what I want to talk about today. Do you want to get into um the planet fitness?
Speaker 5:stuff, first because I have a video that explains it, and then I have one rip that I want to get into. Well, the planet fitness stuff, first because I have a video that explains it and then I have one rip that I want to get into well, first, since we started uh guess what friend it is we might as well roll into the next guess what don't you have?
Speaker 3:oh yeah, go ahead and see what it's your turn oh, so for this week's, guess what friend it is. Uh, producer, uh, can you please pull up this week's um guess what friend it is? I got this off youtube. This is from. I forgot his name um. It says at derrick lip never a dull moment hashtag best friend yes, great, great channel, make sure you guys check them out oh here it goes. Hold on One second and here you go All right. See.
Speaker 1:I got to get close to Britt now, just like she always likes All right, go ahead.
Speaker 3:Can you turn it up?
Speaker 6:I always wonder that you got to be kidding me.
Speaker 1:What.
Speaker 6:What do you mean? What you have, my?
Speaker 2:beanbag in the leaves.
Speaker 3:My girlfriend's flowers are on the ground.
Speaker 6:Well, yeah, I needed something to put my wine in. You don't have any big wine glasses in there. I only wanted that one glass tonight, and I don't think you put the food that came with the flowers in the vase, because they're already dead and Valentine's was just a week ago, you think you're okay.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you don't think you have a problem with what life?
Speaker 1:no, your decision, your thought process? Not really okay.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'm assuming you think I do though, yeah okay yeah you got problems, dude yeah my one problem right now is this lip being too big. It's hard to drink this.
Speaker 2:Why do you have sunglasses on?
Speaker 1:Because your light's bright. I think you only need 60 watt out of here. That's a lot more.
Speaker 2:All right, where are you going? I'll go.
Speaker 5:All right Okay.
Speaker 3:Thank you.
Speaker 5:Steve, yes, you're the one on the beanbag, for sure. Okay.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 5:That's my guess. That's a little fast, alright.
Speaker 3:That's a little fast.
Speaker 2:I don't think you really thought this one through.
Speaker 4:Okay, what about you, britt? You know what the way my life is. It could be me on the beanbag right now, who knows?
Speaker 5:Well, guys, if anybody wants to find out, make sure you tune in next week for the answer make sure you tune into our youtube and comment down below, but I don't like mine, so I hope you want it would be to.
Speaker 4:It would cost me goes if it was you fair enough.
Speaker 5:either way, it was alcohol, all right, all right, so real fast, I want to get an r. So this weekend Brittany was there as well, so we did karaoke. Actually, the inventor of karaoke died last week. Producer, wait, could you pull up the article? I'm probably going to butcher his name, but I think it's Shigenchi Nogashiki.
Speaker 4:Oh, my god, I thought you were talking about the owner of the place. We did karaoke, jesus Christ.
Speaker 5:no, I don't think you heard me, because I said I don't think you heard me, because I said the creator and I was wondering why he wasn't there that night.
Speaker 4:So when I was like oh my god. So then I was like this white man came he's actually Asian, oh my god first of all I said creator. She said the dude who wants a karaoke we went and we went and we just did karaoke. That I don't know. I was just, he wasn't listening. It's okay, it's okay, it's okay anyways.
Speaker 5:Uh, like I said, I think it's shijin. I saw this japanese like oh my gosh, the inventor of karaoke dies at a hundred. Uh, the japanese engineer credited with gifting the world with the greatest inventions the karaoke machine has passed away at the age of 100.
Speaker 1:Yeah, man I had to. I had to add that in there I had to.
Speaker 5:I was like, first of all, god bless him, 100 years old, I I would only I would love to live that long, look pretty good there too.
Speaker 4:No, yeah, it looks good.
Speaker 5:No, definitely oh yeah, nacho calls it so, as we all want to go, uh, but that's all right, peace. I just thought that was funny that we went to karaoke and he died last week, so I was like let me eat, all right y'all.
Speaker 3:Well, that's crazy. So I told you I had to double dip into this, so I had to answer one of the questions. Yeah, it was leo asking if we're live. Uh, so I'll just explain that I goofed it up, but, um, okay, well, this is what happened which ones you want to talk about first, because you wanted to talk about the planet fitness thing so I actually do want to start off with that thing okay, so do you want to start off with the clip that I have?
Speaker 5:yes, please from there, yeah uh, producer, wait, could you because?
Speaker 3:I know for a fact. I guarantee you it's the one that I wanted to pick. I'll almost guarantee it, um, because I was really curious about how y'all feel about all this that's going on oh, I have a few feelings about it.
Speaker 5:I'm glad that in this clip, guys, make sure you turn into our youtube again. You know to see us, to see the clips that we show. Everything turn into our youtube.
Speaker 6:So go ahead, produce me planet fitness lost 400 million dollars in the last five days. A female gym goer took this photo of a man who apparently just started transitioning. This person claims to be a woman, but was shaving his face in the women's locker room when this photo was taken. Patricia silva, the real woman who took the photo, complained to the employees. Their response was if you feel uncomfortable, you can go into a stall. That's in line with their official policy, which says members will be treated according to their self-reported gender identity, meaning that any man can say he identifies as a woman and walk into the woman's locker room and watch females undress. They canceled patricia's membership because she complained about this. Planet fitness is going to lose a lot more than just 400 million bucks. Bud light lost over 1.4 billion dollars over their version of this fiasco. Planet fitness already makes dumb decisions like serving pizza and donuts to people who are trying to lose weight.
Speaker 6:This might be the final nail in their coffin go woke, go broke bud yeah, planet fitness fucked up.
Speaker 5:uh, I think planet fitness thought they were being woke Right and failed to realize that the issue with the bathrooms, that there is perverts that take advantage this is a man, right. I don't see any kind of transitioning. But, in that same sense, who the fuck are we to say who's transitioning and how they transition, or whatever? The fuck are we to say who's transitioning and how they transition, or whatever? That's why the whole talk of the bathroom thing is having their own bathroom, which is a whole issue too, which I never really understand. I get it and I don't get it. Mostly, we're trying to protect children and women, right and young boys, men.
Speaker 3:we're trying to protect everybody let's just keep this a buck. This is about. This is really for women, because that it like no one like guys might be like eh, who's this girl in there trying to you know?
Speaker 5:but no, I wouldn't. Personally I wouldn't. Maybe you don't want, you don't want a woman to see you, some women you don't know You're not trying to see you naked?
Speaker 4:Yeah, you know honestly remember when I got sick at Mariah Carey and I ran into them yeah, the bathroom.
Speaker 1:Honestly remember when I got sick at mariah carey and I ran into them.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah, the bathroom. I swear they were all looking at me like what the yeah, like get out bitch yeah they weren't like all right, yeah, they were like
Speaker 5:oh baby, and that's gross too, but like they fucked up because they were trying to be woke. And they fucked up because why would you cancel this woman's membership and banned her right when she had a point like who is this man in here? Can you get him like that's a fucking man? Yeah I agree and I guess on top of seeing him shaving, there was like a young girl who just came out in a towel while he was doing. That.
Speaker 3:She's like yo and I think there was one like where he was shaving his legs yeah, but we've also talked about he had a full bush? Yeah, but we also on here.
Speaker 5:We also talked about I can't remember what state it was um the, the, uh, the trans woman, um, trying to be in a sorority house, um, but look like oh yes, we didn't really transition look like a man had was getting boners around the girls and they made it a huge thing. He looking like a man.
Speaker 3:Yeah, he looking like a man.
Speaker 5:Honestly, sadly, this might. I don't know if there's going to send a transfer, but if you don't pass, they don't want you in your bathroom. How about this, Ladies? If he was passing, nobody would care.
Speaker 3:I have been saying I think people would care, People do care and people are getting completely just tired of all the horseshit hold on sam, because, first and foremost, all I'm saying is ladies, I completely fucking roll with y'all. I'm riding with the women on this one, just like I roll with women with uh, I don't believe trans people should be allowed to uh play in the sport that they choose competitive sports.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I completely disagree with this shit.
Speaker 3:They should have their own shit and so I had said this shit last year. I said it's the, this is all like all this transition and shit is only gonna hurt women and I said this is only gonna hurt y'all.
Speaker 5:I said that it's attack against women. I've been saying that because it's all about trans and y'all are the ones who were men at one point. So it's, it's. It's patriarchal. As fuck it.
Speaker 3:It's so many I don't think this has anything to do with the patriarchy again because you use the word wrong yeah, it is. No, it's not. This has nothing to do with the patriarchy.
Speaker 5:This is zero. How does zero to do with? Explain to me how you do it because this, this, this has to do. No, I'm saying that a trans woman is a man. Was was born as a man. Yes, and what I'm saying is they're trying to eliminate natural born women we talked about. They want they want to call bleed, us to call, be called bleeders, chest feeding, um. They want to take the female symbol. This is trans women who were once men hey, it sucks right, you got.
Speaker 3:Hey, hold on asking for this. Hey, you didn't want us, you don't want.
Speaker 5:You don't want nobody telling y'all what to feel. It's patriarchal as fuck.
Speaker 3:Don't tell us what to feel. Don't tell us what to do. Don't let us decide for us and we let you. Ladies, this is y'all fault. This is your fault you're saying this is women's fault.
Speaker 3:I've shared this before because, men have been like nah, yo, this is, this is not okay, and that's it. Women are like, no, let them go, let them be free, and now, once that shit comes knocking at your fucking door you're not gonna like what I'm about to say, but you can say the same thing with voting voted white women started.
Speaker 5:No listen, white women wanted to vote, right, women wanted to vote white women. And then, when the black women got behind them, they got the right to vote and then fucking screwed up, screwed, fuck black women after that. So, yeah, black women wanted to be included on how to vote. Be want to vote. And then it got screwed right after that so it's the same shit, women.
Speaker 1:No, I'm just saying people what you're missing.
Speaker 5:The point I didn't like I just use that as an example is that you know you want to support a good cause and then, when you do that, yeah, sometimes you get as history shows you, you get fucked you get shitted on when you support a good cause the only reason why I don't like, I just want to speak. I want people to be who they want to be, whatever they want to be, but don't attack sam.
Speaker 3:You can't women I'm sorry, but then don't attack the people that help you get there sam this is.
Speaker 3:This is the problem. Then you cannot be what you want to be. You, you want everything, every. You want everything. You want everybody to have their way. You cannot be what you want to be and then be like, and then be like. Well, now I'm going to critique it, because now the way that you want to be is making me feel a certain type of way, so I don't want you to really be that. Or if you're going to be that, be that over there, which is what people have been saying.
Speaker 5:To begin with, nobody hates transgenders like that people have just been saying of power.
Speaker 3:People have just been saying but yeah, sam, but that's the power that you guys gave them.
Speaker 1:That's the power that women but that's what I was trying to explain to both the reason why I don't like the comparison between the two.
Speaker 3:You're talking about taking a God-given right from somebody, as opposed to somebody saying this is what I believe.
Speaker 5:Isn't that their?
Speaker 3:God-given right? No, it is not. It's their God-given right to do whatever they want to do.
Speaker 3:But, sam, it is not right for their choice to affect their less than a percent of the motherfucking population. I do not believe that um 99 should kowtow to a less than a percent. We will work with you, we will make you have your own space. We will make we can provide you with a space of your fucking own, and that's not good enough. The reason why I'm so against this is because the people who want this shit, they're all loser men who could not succeed in their sport of choice at the time. Hold on, sam. So they chose this idea? I always felt this way. No, you didn't.
Speaker 2:No, you didn't.
Speaker 3:Oh what I'm sorry, felt this way. No, you didn't. Yeah, no, you didn't. Oh what I'm sorry. You couldn't break the fucking junior teen uh deadlift competition in your in your age range. So you was like you know what I'm feeling like a woman, so now I'm gonna go and break every woman record, okay that's how it, okay, all right.
Speaker 2:So that's what you know. I'm going to shit, that's okay I didn't say you were full of shit.
Speaker 5:Relax, take a breath yo, yo yo.
Speaker 3:I have been fucking right so much. I didn't say you weren't right or wrong. I didn't even get to say anything before you're like ah I hate the way you always just go. I understand, I'm very angry. Thank you, I am very angry, cool I you, just you, you I'm not saying you're wrong or right, I don't know sam I don't know, where you stand on certain shit.
Speaker 5:I really don't what you said that, yeah, there is some people who want to play the system just like that. I believe that man at planet fitness wanted to take advantage of the system and say, hey, I'm a woman, because I want to be a creep and see women naked. And same thing with sports like, yeah, fuck it, I can't beat the men's heavyweight champion basketball.
Speaker 3:See, I don't know we'll just stay lifting.
Speaker 5:Yeah, just stay lifting but if I pretend that I'm transitioning to a woman, no matter what criticism I get, I'll win against these women. Yes, that's the thing. People take advantage of all types of powers.
Speaker 3:It's wrong. So do you think that it's acceptable to have these individuals?
Speaker 5:literally ruin the lives of young ladies who lose all their. That People want to be like, oh well.
Speaker 3:I don't want them to think we're transphobic, yeah.
Speaker 5:Oh my.
Speaker 3:God, oh, but fuck all the women who dedicated their entire lives to this shit.
Speaker 5:But that's what I'm saying Steve, I don't even care what I was saying, but the attack on women. That's what I mean about attack on women. No one gives a fuck about women, no no, Sam, People do care.
Speaker 3:But you've told all the men have been telling you guys this is a problem, this is a problem. And you guys said shut the fuck up, we got it. You don't know you transphobes. And now here you are, but hold that thought because we got to take a break and we're back Now, Sam, I don't want to argue with you. We had a lovely. We had a lovely Wait hold on.
Speaker 5:I want to get back. I don't want to either, but I want to get back I don't want to either, but I want to get back Into the planet. Fitness Are you guys surprised that it taint so badly? No, does that mean people are transphobic? That's what a lot of people are talking about that. They lost so much stocks and money? Is that people are transphobic, and that's why I don't think so?
Speaker 3:I think it's just.
Speaker 4:We just want women's protection I need to turn my hat around, can we just be safe hold on culture can I please have a solo screen I don't think so, but you knew that's what they were gonna say hold on guys instead of even talking about.
Speaker 3:This makes me nervous hold on one second. I don't have my hat right now, but, guys, this is my PC hat and I got to bring back PC Steve real quick. Just give me one sec. I just want to say that I believe that everybody has the right to choose how they want to live. I understand that choices aren't always met with open arms and open ears. I understand that sometimes people are afraid of things that they don't understand and that you know. People just have a hard time getting over their preconceived notions of what they perceive people and things to be.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 3:Again, this is PC Steve, and I just want to say that I do support everybody out there. Whatever you choose to do, as long as it's not hurting anybody or causing unnecessary harm to yourselves or others. I firmly believe that everybody should be allowed to do whatever it is that they see fit. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming. Nigga what Nigga?
Speaker 5:where.
Speaker 3:Nigga, how Nigga? Why Are we talking about this? This, this is not a conversation.
Speaker 5:I was just more shocked that they didn't even listen to this woman. I think they were angry. They were angry that she went to social media. But right, I mean shit. This is what social media is for.
Speaker 5:People can talk about whatever the fuck on their social media and she wasn't wrong instead of listening to this one hold on, instead of listening to this woman and protecting her and other women, you just canceled her, which is what you thought you thought, plaintiff it is. You thought you were woke and you was doing the right thing and that she was going to get canceled. And you weren't going to get canceled.
Speaker 5:But look at you now I never liked them fucking three snaps and a motherfucking head swirl but never liked those purple and yellow fucking equipment and shit that I can never figure out how to fucking work, you know how hard it is to cancel your fucking plan.
Speaker 3:It took me a month. You can't even cancel.
Speaker 5:I went to a location like 10 times I'm shocked that they even had that many cancel their membership because you ain't lying, they will not let you like brian ain't here today.
Speaker 4:You can't, can't actually your contract says you're, you need this, and if you, if you don't have, this you'll die, all I know is that?
Speaker 3:all I know is that if all I had to do was be like I don't support trans and I could have got kicked out like that, I could have saved myself tons of money.
Speaker 5:I don't want to feel like it has to be a separation Cause again. I don't. I don't dislike nobody.
Speaker 3:We're not talking about. We're not All right. I want this to be made very clear and and again.
Speaker 1:this is not telling people not to do whatever.
Speaker 3:But, sam, the reason why I have an issue with it, I think we I we've talked about this before and I am not prepared to have this conversation at this particular second about I'd love to talk about it next week about how I, how I believe everything moves in a pendulum motion, where everything goes one way it always swings back and it comes right back, fucking down. We're about to witness the downturn and I can explain that later, but I had an epiphany this week, sam. I called you up and I was like sam, I have to talk about this. Yeah, I have to speak on this. I have to share this because I have just had it. I have fucking completely figured out basically what is wrong with me and why I get so fucking angry at the idea of everybody trying to push relationships and shit on me. To push relationships and shit on me, um, and I basically came to this conclusion um, from uh.
Speaker 3:I read an article that Michael B Jordan did and I think it was like us, something like that a few weeks ago and he was talking about his struggles with uh maintaining a relationship in his professional career and how he puts so much time and his energy into his professional career. He can't properly focus focus on an intimate relationship with somebody in order to make it work. You know, because that's just how he is like. You know, when you find something you love, like that's where your focus fucking focus is. And the difficulties of finding somebody who understands that and accepts it. Because everybody says it, because it's like, oh, you know, and and again, I forgot.
Speaker 3:He was named sexiest man alive in 2020. I forgot that. So I'm listening to sexiest man alive saying it's hard for him to find a girl and then. But the reason why I want to talk about it is because it got me thinking. It's like, wait and mind you, I have never been named sexiest man alive. The closest I ever got was best dressed at job core. That was it. Uh, you went to job core. You worked at job. I went to job core and made you the best dress, at least in my class.
Speaker 5:You go bitch.
Speaker 3:So yeah, nobody was fucking with that baby blue south pole. Nobody was fucking with that baby blue south pole Shit. So, as I was saying.
Speaker 5:Wait, baby blue south pole, that's my favorite color. Wait, wait, wait, fire, fire. Did you have the white ups?
Speaker 3:Tell me you had the white ups were they white ups, or did I have the baby blue and white fat farms?
Speaker 5:I can't remember god, god, keep going. What kind of jeans echo. Were they echo?
Speaker 3:they were.
Speaker 5:No, I think they were pcx jeans really I told you I'm just having a pc as a kid. Okay, what kind of hat. What?
Speaker 3:kind of hat steve, regular fitted, baby blue fitted nike with the white?
Speaker 5:it was no, this was the most expensive fitted I ever had.
Speaker 3:It was a double knit stitch, uh fitted.
Speaker 5:That cost me 150 no, remember those official fittings were expensive even back then. Yo steve was a bad bitch back in the day. That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying, oh my god, that's it.
Speaker 3:We were just talking about ed hardy and this nigga says I haven't, I rubbed into well, no, no, no, no, sam, that's not a shot, no, no no, sam, that's not a shot?
Speaker 4:I will, happily explain this.
Speaker 3:I will happily, happily, explain this. Um, I tried very hard, right, I tried very hard to make myself be desired by the opposite sex. I would spend I'll talk about I was getting my haircut twice a week, right, I was trying to make sure I stayed as nice. Looking as possible at everything on me matched fucking Sam. There were, there was times back in the day where if my uncle even if I was working with my uncle and I was dirty looking and I was just going into Home Depot, I would change. I didn't want to look like a scrub, yeah, um, so it just. It didn't matter how hard I tried, how nice I dress, none of that shit, it, it. It was never the reason why somebody fucked with me.
Speaker 5:That's true. So do girls approach you. It happens Um are they just not the kind of woman you like? Cause that's most women's issues.
Speaker 3:Like most women, you you know they could find anyone, but it's always these scrubs that yeah, it's, it's 50, 50 sometimes, but the reason why I that shit got me like really thinking and then one thing just popped into my head I'm just not there. I'm unhappy because I realize that no matter what the fuck I wear the money in my pocket, it doesn't matter. None of this shit to me fucking matters because it's. It doesn't serve me a purpose. It serves nothing to me. It's only meant to fucking take and take and take. And I don't know when I read that fucking article with him and he was just talking about like how he can't multitask work, his passions and a relationship and I can't work either and I'm trying to like and I've.
Speaker 3:I don't think people quite get it. I only think about this podcast. I only think about this shit. 90 of my day is thinking about this podcast. Most of my time is. What the fuck do I have to do to make this shit? And? And the amount of work that I have to do is so fucking much. I won't even remotely entertain a relationship Now. I am completely deading any relationship talk. I'm telling anybody flat out, if they're going to talk to me or anything like that, that they're not even number five in my list of priorities, not even top five. See hold on, hold on, because I want these bitches don't deserve you, Steve.
Speaker 5:These hoes don't deserve you. Steve, you hear my nigga talking. He heartbroken, he needs love. No, you hear my voice.
Speaker 3:He needs love.
Speaker 1:See again, you're doing it, Can't you see it?
Speaker 2:I'm glad this is live.
Speaker 4:Look at him. I'm glad this is live.
Speaker 5:Please at stevencoilsd on Instagram. That's not what it is, steven. Steven Coyle S-T-I-N-S-T-I-G-R-E-N.
Speaker 3:Facebook. That's not what it is.
Speaker 5:Steven Coyle Real name.
Speaker 1:Please, Guys that is not what I need. I'm trying to tell you this.
Speaker 2:That's a pussy, somebody.
Speaker 3:That's me Hold on.
Speaker 2:Hold on.
Speaker 5:So I think you go you do an hour, oh shit.
Speaker 3:so all right, I'll go back on, but um, but yeah. So that's the reason why guys like that is the reason why, like listening live for the night. No, I'm gonna keep going, uh, that's the reason why, guys. That's the reason why, um, again sorry, instagram, I didn't realize it was only an hour and we're back, so I understood him so well, sam. The only thing I want to do, sam, like seriously, I'm being dead serious when I was telling you about Mr Beast and how that fucking kid inspires me all he does is just focus on.
Speaker 5:He has a girlfriend and he gets laid Pussy.
Speaker 3:He gets pussy so he has a girlfriend and he gets laid, but Sam, he gets pussy. All right, so, so, all right, so, that's so.
Speaker 4:That's what everything comes to guys Pussy, no, no, pussy, pussy, pussy. We just want you.
Speaker 1:Pussy's never put money in my pocket.
Speaker 2:Pussy has Hold on Sam.
Speaker 3:Listen, listen. Yes, it is lonely, it's very lonely.
Speaker 5:Brittany, I don't want you to be alone.
Speaker 3:But, guys, the only reason why people have a problem with being alone is because they don't have a purpose. This is my purpose. I don't feel bad for being alone, I feel nothing about being alone.
Speaker 5:I just want to tell you, don't get too used to being alone, okay, Hold on. My mom has been alone for like so many years. She, yes, she's had four kids, but she was never with any of the fathers. She doesn't date I probably, but outside of my siblings fathers may be met two boyfriends of hers. She's at a point where she just doesn't want anybody and she's the loneliest person that I know.
Speaker 3:She doesn't want to do anything. I understand that. But, with all due respect, she had four kids. She was with four people. None of them made her happy, or vice versa. Do you not see that? Do people not realize the fucking work that?
Speaker 5:goes into a real relationship. This is my problem. She gave up on love but I'm not giving up on trying, sam. She gave up on all those things and she is very unhappy and lonely.
Speaker 3:Sam, if I give up on it was a fear of mine to end up like her, sam all right, I understand that, but, sam, I am way more afraid of dying a fucking failure than dying alone. I don't give a fuck about dying alone. It doesn't mean shit to me. I want to fucking do something awesome. It doesn't even need to be fucking great or known.
Speaker 1:You are doing something awesome, it's not good enough.
Speaker 3:for me, this isn't good enough.
Speaker 5:Yeah. You're not fulfilled. We can be better than this.
Speaker 3:You're not fulfilled, no, and no woman's going to be able to do it. You're right, I have to do it. You're right, I have to do this. You have to be happy, no one can make you happy.
Speaker 5:You have to be happy on your own. That's a fact, and I'm not, nobody can make you happy if you're not happy alone on your own, doing the things you want to do, getting in relationships is gonna make it 10 times worse, I know this.
Speaker 3:This is why, sam, I've been telling you guys this. Can you guys please stop with the stevie. You need to get yourself some pussy.
Speaker 2:I've gotten pussy.
Speaker 5:And then I woke up and went like this you can at least be content or know what you want to do and know yourself.
Speaker 3:I am content with that, but I also am not content with content. I'm also somebody who was like you know what I think? You're on the grind right now, I think and also saying like I think, if you listen, listen listen to me, it's a person, no, guys here's my thing.
Speaker 3:Do you know what I also have an issue with? Uh, I saw this and this bugged me. I wish I had screenshotted it. Send it to cole, because I want to talk about this shit. Um, this lady left. She has three kids, left her homes, quit her job, went to fucking houston to become an influencer yeah, we talked about actually.
Speaker 5:No, we didn't talk about this, it just happened sam.
Speaker 3:No, that happened weeks ago no, this is another, this is a whole nother thing.
Speaker 5:Another chick yeah, she's plus size with glasses same chick yeah that happened months ago.
Speaker 3:That happened once ago. Why did I only see it today?
Speaker 5:We talked about it. We talked about that. When was that, you stupid? Fuck you, bitch oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, but see, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:We all said she was a stupid fuck but this is what I'm saying, Sam I don't have kids and I don't know why people keep trying to get me to have them no, not to.
Speaker 5:Oh god, I don't know. Listen, I did not just tell you. I wanted to curse the gal back to be wise.
Speaker 3:No, don't have kids because you know what. Hold on, but say mine's different than yours, the reason why I don't yeah I don't want to ever be like, I don't want to say resent, but I. I don't ever want to get to the point where I go. I was it's going to sound mean, but I was cool enough without him. I didn't need this. I don't want to. Whenever I have a kid, I want to be able to fucking look at him and be like, oh my God, I want to devote my life to him.
Speaker 3:That's where my time is gonna go.
Speaker 5:The right person, like you've been saying. That's why you haven't had.
Speaker 3:So this is what I'm trying to tell people. When it comes to steven, again solo screen. When it comes to steven, understand this. It goes me first, podcast. Second, family and friends. Third, fourth, my fucking free time. Five, maybe you, and that's if I don't get a pet, which I always felt like you should.
Speaker 5:I should get a cat. You'd be a great fur dad.
Speaker 3:I love cats, so obviously. But all I'm saying is that's all there is to it and there's no other way around this.
Speaker 5:See what, if you found someone that was on the same kind of wave as you? She's also. She's also busy with getting her shit together and and has ambitions and goals, just like you and you guys can build together. I think I have no problem with that, because you, if you found someone like that, I think that'd be great. You've actually been blessed to meet women who are on a very high scale.
Speaker 2:I don't date bums.
Speaker 5:Yeah, not saying you should, but um, they also wanted you at the same time to be at a certain point and they had. They weren't patient enough to be I don't blame them.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't blame, that's fair.
Speaker 5:I always felt like that was fair and you didn't take it personal or hard. You understood that Completely understood.
Speaker 3:But how come they couldn't motivate you when they were in such a high value kind of job and career? They wanted me to be motivated for the things that they wanted for me, not what I wanted for myself.
Speaker 5:Okay, all right, but hold that thought, because we got to take a break. And we're back. But yeah, steve, you talk about motivation and watching Mr D's, I was just curious why the women that you dated, who were high value women, didn't motivate you, but you said they wanted, they wanted. I felt like speaking to one of them. She wanted what was best for you. I don't think you. Maybe you didn't want what was best for you at that moment.
Speaker 3:So I'll give you an example. I was like, yeah, I just wanted to do my painting thing, all right, so I'll give you an example. So, all right, I'll give you an example. Um, I'd be like, yeah, I just wanted to like do my painting thing. Um, she's like, oh, you need this license, this license. I go, no, you don't not for just interior painting, home remodel painting, stuff like that. You do not need that, you just need llc. You know that and reputation. That's all you need. She's like no, you need it for this and this. I'm like, stuff like that is for like crazy kind of painting that I will never touch, I will never like. First, I had to tell my uncle sam, I don't ever like people think like I want to start a big painting business well, they expect you, they.
Speaker 5:They assume, if you want to do this for the rest of your life, you would eventually got employees. No, I don't payroll, I'm happy with just me. But you're not. You're not going.
Speaker 3:They assume if you want to do this for the rest of your life, you would eventually get an employee payroll.
Speaker 5:I'm happy with just me but you're not going to be young forever.
Speaker 3:Sam, I don't know what you think.
Speaker 5:I don't know how hard you think painting is you can paint well into your 60s, steve. You're not going to be young forever. You could get injured.
Speaker 4:I don't think anything's wrong with that. I know a lot of painters. But I'm saying, do you got like a van which is supplies, and then?
Speaker 3:no, obviously I would be getting all this.
Speaker 4:I'd be doing all that so that's what you're thinking and then you can really like network yourself to these. Like people come into the dispensary all the time with like their cards that are painters but I want this to be understood, though, guys, I do not need a lot I keep trying to tell y'all what so here's my thing, guys.
Speaker 3:So these other, these women also want big houses. What I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't need a big ass. Five thousand square foot crib I don it Hold on.
Speaker 5:It's about finding someone who has the same interests as you right that, and then you know compromising a little bit. Maybe it's that, hold on. Maybe you like a small house. She'd be like well, can we get a medium house, daddy? Like that's a good compromise.
Speaker 3:And we would end the conversation there, because she called me daddy.
Speaker 5:Why I told you I don't like that.
Speaker 1:Why don't?
Speaker 5:people believe me. Why the fuck don't people believe me?
Speaker 3:I think you're disgusting if you call another man who ain't your father daddy. You are a nasty freaking woman.
Speaker 5:I don't like to say that I don't think that. What do y'all think Is?
Speaker 3:it okay for y'all to call a girl, to call you daddy.
Speaker 5:You know every man's gonna say hell. They know how I feel about it personally. I don't. I don't like it. I'll say it as a joke. But I don't like it because it makes me think that's fine. It makes me think of pimp and hooker. That's what it makes me think of every single time.
Speaker 3:I don't think anything's wrong with that? Yuck so, but but that's all I'm saying. So I'm, I'm running around. Daddy's my first source of words.
Speaker 4:I'm more of a baby. I'm more of a baby babe girl, I don't think anything's wrong with calling your man daddy. I don't.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I disagree, but to each their own. I'll say it as a joke.
Speaker 4:If that's your shit.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I guess you can't yuck nobody's yarm If that's your shit. If yeah, I guess you can't yuck nobody's young if that's their shit. If that's what?
Speaker 4:if that's what gets the rockets on papa, papa, they, uh, what else is there? Fucking go ahead, girl. I don't know. But there's, there's multiple names.
Speaker 5:You can call your man anyway, but you know, I think that you I should do the whole song Like Please Daddy's home.
Speaker 4:Like, really Like.
Speaker 5:That was for his kids, though, yeah, no, and that was.
Speaker 3:And some of those kids Were young enough To be his kids.
Speaker 5:And first of all, that was for his kids. He was the first kid. You know how kids love. They want hugs.
Speaker 2:You don't love your kids all day. Your kids don't want hugs.
Speaker 1:That's what this song is about love your kids all day. You don't love your kids all day, you don't stop it.
Speaker 5:You don't hug your kids.
Speaker 1:You don't hug your kids. Give them loving.
Speaker 4:Which is a hug, Damn man.
Speaker 3:Veronica said Poppy sounds better, you wrong.
Speaker 4:Poppy.
Speaker 3:I don't like.
Speaker 5:I just like to say I do hear.
Speaker 4:Poppy a lot. I just say babe, babe, a lot. I just say babe, babe, I'm a babe girl.
Speaker 3:Once the word babe is introduced, you're no longer allowed to call them by their name.
Speaker 5:Yeah, I don't think I haven't heard Producer bae say my name in years. When they say your name, you know you're in trouble.
Speaker 1:Or something's wrong.
Speaker 4:Or something happened. Hold up Like almost drowning in the YMCA pool, like stop, you're in trouble for me, or something or something happened.
Speaker 5:Yeah like hold up, like, like almost drowning in in the ymca pool, like you know something like that that's all I say yo.
Speaker 3:I I just honestly, I just don't know why y'all can't just let a brother live and understand. Say I got a five-year plan, I want to build a tiny home community for us to get off your back about dating.
Speaker 4:It's not about.
Speaker 3:No, you know what it is because I want men to hear this shit too. Honestly, this is actually for guys. This is for guys. I don't give a fuck what women think.
Speaker 3:Honestly, I really don't care what y'all think about this um, because I think men need to start fucking realizing this shit a lot sooner rather than later. I think fucking dudes need to start really trying to figure out their fucking purpose before they start figuring out how to feed kids. I think you should fucking figure out what it is that exactly that you're trying to fucking do in your life before you even remotely hop into a fucking serious relationship with somebody and know that you can't fucking do both. I think that there's a lot of things that fucking people do not think about before they go into all this shit. Yeah, it's true. Well, that's the reason I think we go from fucking dating one minute and then we're immediately into the relationship. Fucking kids happen like when the fuck was the last time you heard somebody together for at least like two to three years before they even got engaged. What was the last time? This is what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:People don't fucking take nowhere near enough time to really fucking learn people, no more too long yeah, some people be out here, keeping it out for five okay how about two to three years before having a kid? Like this happens all the time. How about that?
Speaker 4:people that wait 10 years uh one of our people, one of my home, goes home girls was with her man for 15 before they had one yeah, and now they have three, which I always, always suggest because I could do it the way that you're talking, steve, and that is not smart when you move, but the thing is, it's like it is not.
Speaker 5:You know, people make mistakes and we were. We were once young.
Speaker 4:I was young, you know what I'm saying. So, and you're not making the best decisions.
Speaker 4:You know, dumb, we used to be young and society tells you you need to have kids, you need to be married at a young age Women, I feel like women, you know, we've we've had this discussion where women feel like we're in a different time clock and a different like um, different expectations. The reasons why I felt rushed and why it needed to happen now, now, now, now now, and even it was just, it was too much and the expectations on women it was a lot of expectations.
Speaker 5:Yeah, it's a lot of men too, don't get me wrong. But yeah, a lot of expectations, but it's different for men and that's more of the finance.
Speaker 4:Yeah, way I feel. But um, for women it's like jeez, you know. But she's like jeez, our eggs are, you know. I get killed all the time.
Speaker 5:I'll be 35 in like two weeks and I get killed all the time like yeah, man, you gotta have some kids. I'm like, fuck them kids. You heard it, fuck them kids. I mean I don't want none. Maybe I don't know. I go back and forth.
Speaker 4:I mean look, if it happens yeah, that's how it happens but hold up.
Speaker 3:But, sam, that's also the reason why what um? It actually even brought me back to the idea of uh dating, uh, single parents and stuff like that. I take all this into effect. I take all this shit into my thought process. I'm not gonna get, I don't want to be in a relationship with you if I know that we're not gonna be. And I'm meeting the. Can we get a menage?
Speaker 4:of all the episodes of this motherfucker talking about single parents and how people are going to date, any single parents Can.
Speaker 1:I say something else, that's what I do, that's what I am.
Speaker 4:And no, you kind of you were downing, like us you have said that. And you were downing us and that's almost downing me steve as a partner, because I give a million percent and even just because I have kids and I feel like that's what tarnishes.
Speaker 3:No, I wasn't talking about the women. I was talking about me. I can't give the single mother what they need I'll say that I cannot do it.
Speaker 5:I'll say that steve, had you know this has excuse me, that's his preference, not wrong with that I don't know all right.
Speaker 1:This is why. This is why I get so frustrated by racial niggas britney.
Speaker 5:It was the reasoning.
Speaker 4:It was the reason I just don't. It was the reasoning I still date moms like I still date them really.
Speaker 6:What are we talking about? No, I actually do.
Speaker 5:That's the fucking thing that y'all don't like to hear. I actually do.
Speaker 3:I'll say this Hold on, no, this one. She really doesn't want me to have one. That choice, no, I didn't say you didn't have a choice.
Speaker 5:I didn't say that I said.
Speaker 4:We're at a certain age All I'm saying out to things and I could be better, as it is too, with looking at men that I wouldn't normally look at. I could be better too, because I could be passing out on somebody that would be an amazing partner for me. That is could fit great into my shit, right. But all I'm saying is, if you meet somebody and you know that there is some serious potential there and they're 100% their partner, but they have a kid, I just feel like it's not fair to just be like britney.
Speaker 3:Let me just shut out. I just got done. Saying that the woman in my life won't even be will barely crack top five right now.
Speaker 5:So he means he can't be there for the kids.
Speaker 4:But can I just say you bringing it back and saying that after a couple episodes of you shaming um, see, I'll give Steve a bone, I'll throw Steve a bone. You always say I shame somebody and I don't, it's his preference, but don't take it, but don't even but it doesn't apply to you, right?
Speaker 5:It's his preference. Just ignore it, cause it's not nothing personal towards single women, that's just his preference.
Speaker 1:You don't like?
Speaker 5:you single women, that's just his preference. You don't like. You don't like niggas that wear south baby blue, south pole.
Speaker 4:Okay with the, with the, with the with the fat farm, with the fat farm sneakers, and he ain't getting mad. So just all I'm saying is don't overlook a blessing.
Speaker 3:Okay, I didn't say I would. We could all say that, though I did not say I would okay, like, and first off, I'm the king of ruining blessings I do that for you. I get blessings out of the fucking park with a grand slam, are you serious?
Speaker 4:we've gone a couple episodes before back to back with this topic, so for you to say that was very surprising for me and I I think that's great.
Speaker 1:Honestly, steve, I can't wait until you meet your person and you find I can't wait to meet her and and y'all can't say whether she got kids or not.
Speaker 3:I can't wait to see what how you build a bigger, better podcast. Bigger better, I don't care about, I don't care about the shit because we got to wrap up.
Speaker 5:I'll say that too, steve, I can't wait to see who you're going to grow to be. All my friends, everybody that I love, and that also includes if you have a partner and children and you know, a marriage and things like that and kids. So I can't wait to see everyone in my circle.
Speaker 4:Dad, I can see you coming into into a woman's life who has had issues with. You're a great guy. Yeah, you know, for someone who's had a kid who's been damaged, like it's very damaging, you know, to traumatizing, it's traumatizing, it's everything like that, you know. So I could definitely see you coming in there nurturing him, nurturing and nurturing that kid's life, like I just see you as being that type of person, to be, that be that man for that kid and for that woman. So I I don't think it's all a compliment to you you know very much.
Speaker 4:So yeah, Very much.
Speaker 5:All right, I won't do nasty notes Cause this guy all heartwarming and shit, but he said something nice to Steve Steve.
Speaker 3:I'm not looking for the. We think you're great. We think you're great man. I want this to be very clear. This is not uh, pat steven on the back shit I'm promising you this right now take the fucking compliment. My bad, take the compliment. I'm sorry, fuck, sorry. You see how what I got to deal with.
Speaker 5:I can't wait to read these back anyway if you like this episode, make sure you like this episode, make sure you subscribe, make sure you share, make sure you comment down below for nasty notice shame. Oh, I didn't even do shame game this week. We thought you could do it real quick knock that one out real fast. All right, producer babe, we're gonna do shame gang real fast. Shame gang is a segment we do when we pick a video that we the audience have to shame we have to shame them give britney one of your earbuds, because she got to hear this shit.
Speaker 5:All right, pause it, babe now we're sharing this, not okay yeah, all right, y'all. Um, before we play this, it is uh, it's, it's a reaction video that we're reacting to, so it's like reaction.