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The emotional toll of one-sided gift-giving traditions and the significance of a father's role in a daughter's life are just the tip of the iceberg in this heartfelt episode. We're diving into the deep end with personal stories that strike chords of familiarity, reflecting on the importance of fathers, and tackling societal giants like housing discrimination and the shadow of abuse brought to light by recent revelations about Sean 'Diddy' Combs. With humor and earnestness, we navigate these complex waters, bringing you stories that resonate and provoke thought.
Wrapping up, we salute the underdogs, the 'people's champs' of life who show incredible resilience in the face of adversity. Through the lens of personal growth and self-awareness, we shine a light on recognizing toxic traits and the journey of healing after bad relationships. With reflections, debates, and celebrations aplenty, this episode is a rich tapestry of life's experiences, and we're thrilled to share it with you. So plug in and prepare to connect on a whole new level – your headphones are the ticket to this rollercoaster ride.
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Speaker 2:Yeah, plus One Podcast. Cheer. What's going on, everybody, and welcome to the show. It's the King of the Heffery, it's Oreo. We are back once again podcasting to you and, as always to my left, we got my co-host, dylan. Tell them who are you. It's Sam Crystal, and I'm your host, steve, and this is the minority plus one podcast. Welcome to the show, everybody. As you're coming in, make sure you hit the like button.
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Speaker 2:But like and comment, that's even more important than subscribing, to be quite honest with you. Yeah, I would. Actually that gives us more engagement, guys like.
Speaker 1:If you guys are commenting and liking, we'll get you know that algorithm working in our favor and then we can get more views. You know we want to. We want to make this into something someday, but how are you? Sam I'm cool how's your week? Um, it was cool you seem like droopy dog.
Speaker 2:What's up?
Speaker 1:no, no, I'm just tired. Um, I started my workout journey because I bitch is a big back, but, um, because, all right, every year I don't know if every girl does this, but every year I kind of like retry my summer clothes, like put on my summer clothes to see where I'm at weight wise, and uh yeah, a lot of things wasn't zipping up and uh, the cellulite was celluline, the belly was belly in, it was back fat, betty, cellulite, sally, all those things.
Speaker 1:So I have been working out 30 minutes a day doing like car, like more cardio, pilates, a little bit of weight every day. So I'm very tired how's the diet?
Speaker 1:that too I've been cutting. You know what's crazy? Steve? I don't really. You can ask produce, but I'm not a shitty eater. It's just because I'm not active. I really don't eat bad. I eat salads, um, all the time, oatmeal. In the mornings I drink a lot of water. I really don't eat like shit. All right, so it's not, but I am dieting. I'm taking that into account too, because't eat like shit. All right, so it's not, but I am dieting. I'm taking that into account too, because I want to lose it fast. So I'm gonna, but the weekends I'm still gonna enjoy myself. I'm not gonna work out like I'm gonna.
Speaker 2:You know, eat so you're a weekday warrior I'm a weekday warrior.
Speaker 1:All right, bitches need a break. I'm not mad at you sam? Um, I ain't mad at it, you to start somewhere yeah, besides that, um last saturday I went to black fay day.
Speaker 1:How was that um, it was fun. Um, if you don't know what black fay day is, it is a festival for us geeks as blurbs, as they call us now, um, where we celebrate just being eccentric, wearing you know being, you know fairies and fays and stuff like that black people kind of just being in touch with their you know nerdy side, because I, we talked about it on on the pod before when we were younger us, our generation, being a nerd, being into anime being, was not a thing though you know it was not a thing.
Speaker 1:You, I was getting killed for being a girl and I used to love video games and shit like that you did not get to sit at the cool table.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, you were with the rest of the fucking losers, yeah until high school.
Speaker 1:Weirdly enough, high school I was really popular in high school. Oh, lucky you not. What a lucky duck. I'm just saying not to the point where I'm, like you know, homecoming queen, popular, but I, I'm like who I am, that I'm a social butterfly.
Speaker 2:How social butterfly did you get to the prom?
Speaker 1:I didn't go. I was too busy smoking weed. I was more like I was in high school, like I was a stoner, so everybody thought it was funny and I was always high. You know what I mean and I was. I was quiet in class, but everyone quiet in class. Yeah, I'm quiet in class why can't that translate here?
Speaker 1:sometimes shut the fuck up anyway. So back to what I was saying. So, um, it's actually a lot bigger this um fay day, black fay day. Um, it is, let me see, let me get the date right june 11th all over.
Speaker 1:So it's actually originated, if I'm not mistaken, in philadelphia okay, and they have a really big one there, they have a really big one in chicago, so this was very small. The the girl, the girl who um started. She didn't start it, but you know she didn't go through like I don't know how that works. Like comic-con I don't know if comic-con is like one big corporation, they just have them in different states I think there's like comic-con. There's san diego comic-con and then there's everything else I don't know if it's owned by the same.
Speaker 2:Again, guys don't quote us, I don't. I do not think it's by the same people, right?
Speaker 1:so this was more like her, um her trying, you know, kind of just trying to get out here here. It was small but it was still fun. We played like a fairy version of uh candyland. So she had all these like little uh, like little markers and then like if you get to one spot and it was like you have to solve the riddle or you have to step back four spot spots, like that's fun stuff to me all right.
Speaker 2:How many people showed up?
Speaker 1:maybe, maybe, like 14 people, but we made the best of it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm sorry, yo that's not a bad crowd right, right and and when it's a little bit more intimate, like that, it's funner, you know, and she had, you know, refreshments and snacks and everybody was dressed up and I'm like, oh no, next year I'm gonna be even like extra, because she's gonna do it next year. But I actually met a girl there who also is into cosplay locally. So if you guys don't know, we're, I'm from albany, new york, we're from Albany, new York.
Speaker 1:Yes, Unfortunately this is where we are spearheaded. I got to stop saying that.
Speaker 2:Like I could have been born on, like the fucking I don't know. I'm like shy rackers on somewhere. Yeah, I could have been somewhere fucking completely different. So let me shut my face. I got to start being more appreciative of where I'm from, what up.
Speaker 1:Same from same same. I'll be trying to read you can do better. Yeah, no, absolutely. I think that's the issue. We know the potential that this place had, has and has had when we were younger and now it's just a shit, but that's a whole different topic. I met another cosplayer and I'm from, so I don't you know, I've tried so hard. I've probably met maybe one other one and his name is agony the clown, and he's a scary clown and he's from out here, he's from schenectady, and I actually want to have him on the pod one day because like he, literally he's like a full-time clown, but he was the only other like cosplayer and technically he wasn't even a cosplayer, because this is like his job, like this is like he says, like he's a clown, like 98 of the time he's in this clown fit. Anyway, shout out to Agne.
Speaker 2:So I don't know if I honestly I'm not quite sure if I like clowns or not.
Speaker 1:Well, when you.
Speaker 3:I don't know. Yeah, he's a scary clown.
Speaker 2:Why do we need a scary clown?
Speaker 1:I don't know, but I want to have him on.
Speaker 2:Anyway, tune in to that.
Speaker 1:But I met this girl. Um, we will be collabing soon, so look out for that, that'll be cool. So I got her info. We, you know, we text each other. It's just nice. It's a whole I think I talked about it's a whole community. It's it's no weird, like the thing is. It's like it's no weird freaky stuff. Like you know, sometimes as you get an adult and you get into groups, somebody's trying to fuck you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm just saying it's always something along the lines of that like you know what's kind of funny, because I do want to touch on that later on in the episode about uh. I'll throw the question out now, but you can ponder on it. Um, it is uh. Who do you think needs a dad more the son or the daughter? Don't answer it now. I want you to ponder on it, and, podcast listeners, I want you to ponder on it as well, because we do have something that we want to talk about first and foremost.
Speaker 3:But anyway that was my Saturday.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's pretty cool. Yeah, it was cool, it was fun.
Speaker 2:What about you? Not a man? No, I think it was trash. Uh, not a man? No, it was trash. Uh, I didn't do shit, I just worked, and then I actually, but I did get to go to. Um, oh, and I am so sorry everybody, we are shitty at our jobs. Happy belated mother's day to everybody. I completely fucking forgot that. I always miss Mother's Day. I always fucking miss it and, honestly, my mom has gotten to the point where she's like I don't Even expect that.
Speaker 1:Listen, let me tell you something she's actually shocked when I even say something.
Speaker 1:Honestly, I just forget. All right, let me. Just let me ask you this, and this might sound selfish, this might sound crazy, but I used to get my mom so, mind you, my mom's a single mother of four, me and my mom. I love my mother but we have our differences. But I always try. You know she's a very like, she's a hermit, she's very like, kind of lonely person. So I always buy her a valentine's day gift, a mother's day gift, an easter, her birthday, christmas, fucking thanksgiving sometimes you're a better child than I am.
Speaker 1:I stopped she doesn't get me anything. Is that, am I wrong? Because I'm just sick of like. Sometimes you're a better child than I am. I stopped, she doesn't get me anything. Is that am I wrong? Because I'm just sick of like? But you're not getting her stuff all the time, like but for my birthday my birthday was april we went to the golden girls play.
Speaker 1:I talked about it here, yeah, but it was my birthday and I paid for her ticket oh, I see what you're saying and then when we got there, when you know they, they sell the merch I was thinking, oh, you know, maybe she'll ask me if I want something from the merchandise table. No, she buys herself a fan. It doesn't ask me if I want anything. My point is I'm kind of I love my mom, but I'm just sick of always. I'm'm very generous as a person in general. I just feel like, damn, for my birthday at least you couldn't get something thoughtful? I don't need anything expensive. I'm always very thoughtful to her.
Speaker 2:Have you ever decided just to express that to her? Have you ever told her?
Speaker 1:No, that would break her heart, cause I already know what she's going to say, but we share an Amazon account.
Speaker 2:Well, that's what you just go. Listen, mom, I'm not asking you for anything.
Speaker 2:I'm asking like you can just be like mom, you can just take me to dunkin donuts right, you can give me a dunkin donuts gift card, like I just feel like I'm so sick of doing that, I know but I mean, at some point you know the like us as the children you know it's eventually gonna come our time where we got to take care of them yeah, but I feel like I've been doing this for a long time I know like way before her time.
Speaker 1:She's not old, she only 58. It's not like she's it's.
Speaker 2:I mean, it's not always fair, but I mean that's just the circumstances that we and I think about this a lot like I really do.
Speaker 1:Is your mom bad with money?
Speaker 2:no, she's way better than me, my mother is terrible no, she's way.
Speaker 1:Maybe she's good with money now I'm seeing the other, so you're not going. I'm fucking horrible and she's great with money my mother is terrible with money.
Speaker 2:I'm very good with money, you see, yeah I wonder yeah, she's taught me nothing about money, nothing about finances yeah, I don't know, maybe she'll tell you, teach you her tricks, y'all I mean honestly, I, I don't know, I just I, my mom's always been more of the hold on. Let me not lie, because actually, hold on, I'm lying to you. She wasn't always good with money. She got better with it when she stopped realizing she didn't need fucking two thousand dollar furniture and an eight thousand and a fucking four thousand dollar bedroom set and again I'm pumping up the numbers, but it was in the thousands and we did not have thousands, right, right, like y'all.
Speaker 1:Y'all had mattress and box spring money. Not fucking, not fucking bed five piece bedroom set.
Speaker 2:She fucking got I remember this one time man she got this thing and I really did not know why she bought this thing and I was like mom, you don't even have anything to put in it, I know, but it ties the room together oh, your mom's a decorator she loves that shit, man.
Speaker 1:She loves making any place a home it doesn't look nice though, because some people I would be lying to you I'd be lying to you if I said it didn't look good. It looked good okay, because some people can decorate, but it's not.
Speaker 2:It's not tasteful, it's like bad it's it's, you know, when you were in my mom's house okay, it's a lot of uh knickknacks that she used to paint in uh live, life, love.
Speaker 1:No no, she's not one of those it's a lot of like love everywhere it's a lot like I said she used to.
Speaker 2:She was really into knickknacks and painting those things, um, so she has, like those, obviously, picture of the kids, um, and you know just like she loved, she's always loved indians and wolves, always, always, always, always.
Speaker 1:So there's that shit everywhere she's got the wolf blanket, don't she the? Fucking hell yeah police wolf blanket those shoes were everything.
Speaker 2:Hell yeah, I don't even talk to women she likes it who don't have one of those right, she likes native american she loves it, she loves indigenous stuff, she loves that stuff. But uh, yeah, you know she, no, she, you know, anywhere she's ever been at, she's always made it as nice as possible. I'll give her that, all right. You know, unlike me, man, I'm fucking good. Tv can be on the floor. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1:I ain't that bad, but I don't give a shit.
Speaker 2:I don't need it much.
Speaker 1:I don't have much, uh, decorative taste Like producer based sister does, and I'm like when we get our new, if we our house decorate please like she has such great taste, but yeah yeah, I told somebody they can decorate my house if they want to, because they're they have a nice taste, they have great taste that's important, y'all I just can't afford her services no for our status. For me, right now, I probably couldn't do it either, but I would want to because the shit should be bringing out.
Speaker 2:I already know steven, this is gonna look great in here. Yeah, it's honey.
Speaker 1:It's about 300 bucks yeah, a high limit credit card, like a ten thousand dollar credit card or something like that.
Speaker 2:No, I would never do that no, never shit, I would use.
Speaker 1:I would definitely get a ten thousand dollar credit card and I would use that to decorate the home. No, I wouldn't max it out, hell no I probably spend like never, do that 60. Okay, that's a lot, though, but all right watch out when you fall behind I know no, I don't, I would never.
Speaker 2:It don't get fun, I promise that I'm really good with money steve I understand that. So then, why not just pay for the?
Speaker 2:well, I know, I know why you would use credit and I'm not that naive to why people oh people who use credit are broke. It's like no, if you're fucking actually smart and you know how to properly fucking use the credit cards, it's actually the most intelligent thing for you to fucking do. Hey, you earn points if you have flyer miles, you earn that and also all your money is fucking protected genius hell, yeah, you get that back.
Speaker 2:God forbid shit, but anyway but uh, oh, uh, but uh, before we get on that, uh, I got a shout out to the homie roundhead. Uh, congratulations she graduated.
Speaker 1:She graduated finally from nursing school. She's been.
Speaker 2:She's an official rn now, yep, she's got her rn. Oh my gosh, uh, I'm so happy for a couple people.
Speaker 1:I went to school. It had had graduated uh yes, I think might have been yesterday or the day before yesterday and I was like, oh my god, I'm like dang, you know, we're all in the same age group, like there's. I'm like I could just go to nursing school, like you could out man, they all looked finished no, I know that's the only thing I. I watched so many videos about like nursing and it's hell, it's hell. I don't have a great bedside manner.
Speaker 2:You can't do it, though I can't do it, and I care for people very much.
Speaker 1:It's just my bedside manner. I just I don't. And if I can't give that to a person, that too you can't just be avoidant. Like that will fuck with you too, and like I did, I worked uh, I did housekeeping at a hospital once and it was disgusting, so people would be shitting on themselves as they're walking, and it was it was pretty bad.
Speaker 2:One of the perks why I can't wait to get old. You want to?
Speaker 1:shit on yourself. You can do it right now.
Speaker 2:Diaper baby, yeah. But if you do it now, it's just uncouth. Have you ever? Have you ever shit on yourself? Oh yeah, I where I thought it was going to be sion ellison. Then it was like oh no, you thought you sharted. Uh, it wasn't a thought. I once got so desperate I had to shit in a plastic bag. That's disgusting, trust me. I don't even want to go into that story. Wait, no, go ahead. We're here now. Just, needless to say, too much alcohol. Why did you have to shit in a bag? Because there was somebody in the bag, because there was somebody in the bathroom. I could not hold it. I could not fucking hold it. There was nothing I could do. There was literally nothing I could do. I was scrambling just for the bag. How'd you wipe your ass?
Speaker 1:t-shirt that I had to burn I've heard those stories before, though I know a few people that didn't have toilet paper. They use t-shirt so you ain't the only one, don't be ashamed like it happened.
Speaker 2:There's that I could do, yo I. There was somebody about I could not go anywhere else. There was literally. I had seconds to make up my mind either shit. It was either shit, my britches, or fucking come up with something else.
Speaker 1:What's up with your asshole? You couldn't.
Speaker 2:This was I was peak into my Freaking overindulgence in alcohol and eating fast food.
Speaker 1:Three times a day. It was pure diarrhea.
Speaker 2:I apologize if this is grossing anybody out, but this is life.
Speaker 1:I mean, you remember britney had so many stories about shitting. Oh yeah, the mariah carey thing, don't feel bad.
Speaker 2:I didn't have her kind of time. Yeah, it was literally. Oh, you need to make up your mind now, yo yeah, how's your asshole now, is it okay? No, I'm good now. I don't drink like that, no more. I had two beers at the celebration dinner and that was it.
Speaker 1:Oh, she had a celebration dinner, yeah, where at?
Speaker 2:I just went somewhere local. It wasn't nothing crazy.
Speaker 1:Was it good.
Speaker 2:Yeah, honestly, it was just good times, like that's all I cared about, I don't care about the regular people were there kicking, with the people celebrating, each being happy um, finally getting that overweight. She has been trucking away at that, you know, for for a while, man, so she was elated. Um, I embarrassed her a little bit, but I already told her I was going to what would you?
Speaker 2:do? I screamed out yeah, brownhead. I already told her I was going to. What would you do? I screamed out yeah, brown hair. Oh God, she's on stage, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, where was it? Maria college or what college was it?
Speaker 2:Uh, it was, it's this. It was the St Peter's school of nursing. Oh, okay, it happened at um Hudson Valley.
Speaker 1:Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:So yeah, man, it's not easy, because I know a couple of people who have done the entire course and can't pass the test, like they've gone into school a couple of times and just can't pass the test.
Speaker 2:It's fucking hard. And she's still. That's not even it. She's also taking another test, and you know oh, here's a fun fact In New York state state you cannot say you're a nurse unless you have an actual nurse's degree.
Speaker 1:oh, you cannot say it hmm, interesting, there's so many there's nurse practitioners there's, but you have to be a nurse there's, there's rns, there's cnas, pcas I don't think cnas counts as nurses. I know they need to get paid more because they do a lot of work, but anyway.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but yo congrats to you Ish. Congrats, ish, I'm so happy because that's how she started off. She started off CNA, started off with LPN.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they move up.
Speaker 2:And then usually people stop at LPN.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because you're almost a nurse. Then.
Speaker 2:I think you just can't administer meds or some shit. Oh, I don't know all the details, but we will hold that thought because we got to take a break and we're back. So if you're just joining us, make sure you already know, what to do.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna keep saying it after every break, subscribe, subscribe and make sure you hit the like button and, guys, let us know how much you love us or hate us. Leave us a good, leave us a good old comment and on that note, sam take it away uh, let's get into some minority support.
Speaker 1:So minority support is a segment we do when we read listeners comments and questions is last week's episode. Uh, we got king's culture, it gets a celebration. Um, our guy leo, he says not gonna lie them snap benefits really be hitting, though. Different though yo let me tell you something, leo when I had got them benefit, when I had got food stamps, I used to get sushi, all types of expensive shit, okay, steaks, all that shit and this is where all my money's going. Hell, yeah, shit they getting tomahawk steaks and shit.
Speaker 2:Yo fucking crab legs and I stand by what I said. I'm against it anyway.
Speaker 1:Um, he put she, I had a razor i-95 and a sidekick. I worked at a cell phone spot and I always had the hookup, always had the new, hottest, and I would make the ring toes fully custom. Oh my god, leo was one of those, okay let me tell you something.
Speaker 2:He must have been one, leo. Make sure you leave a comment on it. Were you one of those? Okay, let me tell you something. He must have been one, leo. Make sure you leave a comment on it. Were you one of those, like those annoying people who had to let everybody know like you had the most flyest fucking phone out? Because I remember there was that, especially when the iPhone popped off? Oh gosh, at first it was the Razr, yeah, and then that damn next tail, chirpy shit and then when the iPhone hit, it was like look at my phone, because I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2:When I got my first sidekick and it was an older one, thought she was a man I really thought I was this shit, and I worked at a cell phone store too, which is what actually got me completely out of?
Speaker 1:yeah, that's how I met you see, you used to work at spread, I used to work I used to fix those fuckers oh, wow. Anyway, he says um, whatever son, whatever son you want, or whatever part of this song I got you. Let me tell you something, leo, I do Y'all shout out because I miss the early 2000s more than I can say, because I remember having an X-Tel.
Speaker 1:We talked about it having a Boost mobile and you had to have like the custom fucking you had to ringtones, right, and I always had ringtones for different friends, but my, my general ringtone which I was such a fucking bird was shauna's song. Remember I was getting some head, yes, some head, I was getting some, that's. That's all. The older is cringe, like that shit is. So I was such a bird and my other ringtone was fucking ma. I've been hugging the block, that's right, hustling rocks.
Speaker 2:I know I've been coming to die and I guarantee you she danced every time the fucking phone rang.
Speaker 1:You know what? Tell that shit to another god. I was such a chicken head and I guarantee you she danced every time the fucking phone rang. Yo what? Tell that shit to another God. I was such a chicken head, oh can we bring that back?
Speaker 2:It's cringe. Can we start referring to girls as chicken heads again?
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's fitting. I miss that Bitches be chicken heads.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry Yo, we're bringing chicken, we're making chicken head. Great again, I miss that phrase.
Speaker 1:So he said so last week. I was talking about like how Steve was actually explaining how, like you know, he never really wanted to get benefits. I started explaining how I had got it at one point when I was like 22.
Speaker 2:Hold on, sam, tell the full story. I said that it was my own personal goal to never be on welfare.
Speaker 1:Right. But, I did try and got denied.
Speaker 1:Well, technically you weren't even being on because my, because my 200 from taco bell was apparently too much no dead ass, um, but I was telling him how at one point I had section eight and I had food stamps and I had this fucking landlord, fat ass, white erin, fat ass, white Aaron, and she would terrorize the shit out of me and I actually left out a piece of the story. So that same night, steve, I was explaining how, um, I came home, I had no power in the crib. I went down into the basement, which was where, like, the laundry room was at Cause it was like a whole entire little complex. I go down there and I noticed my fuse box is missing the bulb. So I go back there and I'm like fuse box is missing the bulb.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's why you didn't tell me that.
Speaker 1:So I go back there and I'm like yo, what's going on? Like why Where's my fuse box? I don't know what you're talking about. She was back there smoking with her husband smoking cigarettes. I don't know what's going on. I need to discuss something. I don't need to discuss shit.
Speaker 2:I don't have no power house. Wait, did your food?
Speaker 1:spoil. No, okay, thank god, because that. That's because I had. Those are fighting words, I know I called national and I just went food shopping that day. I remember I called national grid so that they can come in the morning to bring me a fuse, because I was about to. It was at night so I couldn't go to the store and go buy one or whatever, but it was very intentional. My fuse box was the only one that had a few didn't have a fuse in it clear.
Speaker 2:It's always yeah, she did that shit anyway.
Speaker 1:Um, so I was pissed. I'm heated in the house in the dark with no power. My ex-boyfriend at the time he was kind of he was, it was pitch black because it was night and I you know what. I was so mad that I took some pots and in the hallway I said I banged the pot together. I said nobody's gonna sleep. Nobody's gonna sleep. No, yeah, I'm not gonna sleep cuz of y'all. Yeah, I'm not gonna sleep cuz of me. Bang, bang, bang. So listen, true story, so listen that. So that morning, so after that, because he was like yo, chill, what are you doing? I was pissed though I was, I was beating pans, being mad loud on purpose no, sam, you sound like you were in a great mood, of course listen, listen, so fucking that's.
Speaker 1:So. I go back to his house because I had no power in the morning. I actually didn't go to school that day, I actually just went home. I go home. I get a fucking letter on my door, handwritten letter, thanks to the asshole that was banging the pots last night when some of us have to work, and I knew exactly who it was. It was that bitch's fucking husband, who she used to sun, by the way, because when I used to go down to do laundry in the basement I used to hear her screaming at his fucking ass. He'd be like going to get their little ugly son and like hold them and she'd like do to you he was ugly and he had two ugly fat ass, hillbilly white motherfucking parents.
Speaker 1:I didn't like that got me fucking evicted anyway.
Speaker 3:No, he was a brat, he was a brat. He was a brat too anyway.
Speaker 1:So I remember hearing her black on him all the time. He would go pick up his son. His son is crying and she's like I told you to sit him the fuck down, stop coddling him. He'd be like can you stop talking to me like that, stop being a jerk. That's how their relationship was. She wore the pants and the strap on in the relationship, all right, yeah, fat ass, white Aaron. Now I will never forget you, but that's what. That's what he was talking about. But he put um.
Speaker 1:So as far as reporting her, I did try that. I went to legal tenants. Try to get an attorney. I this, I'm telling you this. I had so much going on around that time. I I was going to school, like I said, and had to work. They gave me a very bizarre attorney. It was a middle-aged white guy who talked so slowly and I say that because he would leave hour-long messages in my voicemail box and they would cut off and he would call again to add on to the voicemail box He'd be like so, from what I see in your release, this is how we found it that you do need to prove that you're not making the noise if you're not making. Yeah, you think I was gonna win the case with that nigga?
Speaker 1:I did I did it clearly.
Speaker 2:I did it because clearly I gotta you were making the noise.
Speaker 1:No, I wasn't oh, just that night. No, she deserved that shit, See why you keep defending Aaron Fat White Ass.
Speaker 3:I didn't defend her.
Speaker 1:I'm sick of you defending that white bitch.
Speaker 2:I think you mistake defending for.
Speaker 1:That one night. She deserved it. I kept her, I banged pots in the hallway, Sam in him in that a building, no, fuck, no. So. So so my question is see, all right now moving on, because, like huh you, it's okay this fat white bitch terrorized me.
Speaker 2:I know, sam, I'm not excusing her actions and actually, but your actions directly affected everybody in that building only directly affected.
Speaker 1:You were, you there, beloved okay, I'm only going based off what you're telling me, I'm gonna correct you, because I asked the neighbors around me. I said, hey, last night did you hear me banging? Because I had that note? They were like, no, we didn't hear anything okay, I'm calling bs.
Speaker 1:They probably want to stay out of it but no, because I easily would have just apologized like hey, I'm, listen, I had nothing to do with nothing, you're right, but this fat white bitch downstairs. They nobody fucked with fat ass, white Aaron downstairs right, everyone hates that, sam.
Speaker 2:What I'm trying to explain to you is all those people didn't have their fuse taken she was hating on me.
Speaker 1:I was a little slim john. I had blonde hair that was straight.
Speaker 2:I was looking right you were a hard, you were a hard eight no, I was a hard fucking 11.
Speaker 1:All right the fucking. I'm just kidding. No, I looked. I feel like I look the same, just like, obviously like 60 pounds heavier, but your head got meatier yeah but uh, I was, it was. It was very much a case, steve and this rarely, this maybe a few other times that this happened that that she was jealous of me. It could be. It could be she was jealous like I've had you weren't entirely in the wrong either.
Speaker 1:I was completely not in the wrong at all, and okay, you could say the pot thing was ignorant. But I was so fed up, yo and I and she wasn't gonna come outside so I can punch you in the face.
Speaker 2:So why not take a picture of the fuse box? What I did all that.
Speaker 1:What can I do?
Speaker 2:sim, I don't know what can I do? I get along with all my neighbors this me too.
Speaker 1:This is I'm trying to explain to you. This has never happened to me before. It never happened to me before that it never happened to me after, because I am pleasant. Okay, fuck, fair enough shit. I'm gonna say something.
Speaker 2:You had to deal with a little hateration. Listen, cry. You don't want to tell your fucking pretty sob story to the fucking ugly people in the world. We don't care. It was. I had a fat white woman hate on me because I was pretty what other reason would it be, sam? I don't know, because I'm fine man, shit, I can't help it what if her man was like oh, to get me some of that there Rice and peas.
Speaker 1:Listen, I should have known Hold on real fast. I should have known that not to move in there, because the first fucking night that me and my boyfriend were moving stuff in there, he brings his fat, hillbilly ass to access to keep it down while we're moving in.
Speaker 2:What's? How were you guys moving in? It was like then, that's, it, was that okay.
Speaker 1:That is not unreasonable but I don't have any other time to do it. Steve, that's why I told him and they knew that when I moved in there I said, listen, I don't get home till like 11. I'll try to get out a little earlier so I can move in. They knew all this.
Speaker 2:I'm very considerate look, I'm not saying that you didn't go about it the right way, and I'm not saying that they went about it the right way either. The baby's up.
Speaker 1:Oh fucking. Well, tell that little bastard go sleep. I'm sick of this. No, steve, you're here trying to make fucking. You're trying to be on the, on your people's side, and they wrong in this one. They wrong in this one, steve.
Speaker 2:I'm telling you. I never said that they were right. I'm saying that you're not right either. I'm saying that both of y'all about which part? Sam, the pots and pants thing. I'm sorry, the pants deserve it, sam, you didn't just you.
Speaker 1:You missed this, you and I don't care what your neighbor said you didn't just do it to her. It's not like you were like in her house, I wish you were in the hall beating that bitch ass in her house and dragging her out.
Speaker 2:Of the entire complex of other people who live there. Banging Sam, even if me and you were cool, I'd have been like bitch go to bed.
Speaker 1:No, my boyfriend told me yo, what the fuck did you do? I only did it for a half a second, steve. A whole 30 minute, 20 minute fucking marching band set. Okay, because that's how you portrayed it. No, no, I gave a little fuck out this bitch in here, fuck that stupid bitch. And then he told me to chill, okay, and then you stopped. Yeah, I did, okay, all right, see, that's what, steve, I'm not wrong still, it's okay anyway, he says.
Speaker 1:Leo says, unfortunately, due to those restriction, landowners don't want to accept section 8 and it's a huge issue because people now cry discrimination. There are laws against it but landlords know how to navigate it, which is so true because we talked about how you can only get into these like shitty parts of town with section 8, he also. So last week I was uh expressing that there's certain words that aren't sexual in nature that sound sexual to me.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:And he put the word itself is okay and I think it was moist.
Speaker 2:I think it is Moist wet.
Speaker 1:Look moist wet. It's how you're saying it. Anyway, the word itself is okay. How it's used is hypersexualized. If you are the type of person who thinks or automatically sexualize something, it's more of a personal issue. Or, in steve's words, you're a perv. But it's all good, we love you, just oh yeah no, don't get.
Speaker 2:I'm a pervert too, I think every.
Speaker 1:I can make anything in this I can make anything.
Speaker 2:You can tell me thumbtacks, I'll come up with something. Some 30 shit, yeah, you know, fucking, oh, that's what I call my balls. I don't know. I don't know, I'll come up with something I call my nipples. Oh, actually that's a good one.
Speaker 1:My shop sounds good but yeah, that's my minority support. Guys, make sure you comment down below. If you have any questions concerns that, we'll read them on the pod live 100 percent but see that she deserved it. I didn't say, she didn't but uh, hold that thought, cuz we gotta take a break and we're back.
Speaker 2:And if you haven't already, you already know what to do. Hit that thumbs up, leave us a comment, let us know how much you love us. Subscribe. So, sam, uh, today is what's today. Today is may 17th. Now, sam, there was a while ago, or you know, I had warned, uh, the black community, that your time, your, your leaders, your uppers, the people that you guys hold near and dear, that that after the weinstein thing I said I don't know why, I just feel like you're next. And then, sure enough, we get diddy and we've.
Speaker 1:He's been a repeat offender on Nasty Notice.
Speaker 2:Yes, I mean ain't no surprise. The reason why, guys, I wanted to mention today's date is because we happen to be Just today Breaking news we just happened to be recording on the day when this video had dropped. Yeah, and I'm sure everybody's already seen it. I am positive that everybody has already seen this.
Speaker 1:He is fucked now it is over, and they caught his ass at 4k. Like, as you guys know, cassie had a lawsuit a couple months ago accusing him of stuff. Um, they did settle. Now the video is coming out. This video is from 2016 mind you, this was already alluded to years ago.
Speaker 2:Yeah, this was already out there in the in the spheres, but nobody.
Speaker 1:You know no one listens apparently sam.
Speaker 2:The reason why this just now came out is because he paid somebody in the staff at the hotel that they were staying at for the security footage, the video captured on so, before we get into it, because this isn't the edited version, sam we cannot show it, it is is it? Yeah, okay, so we have the video. It's all over.
Speaker 1:It's all over social media it's all over instagram, it's all over tiktok anywhere um, before we even play it, I'm gonna, I'm.
Speaker 2:I am flat out saying this because I know I say wild shit on here, like how I'll drop a bitch if she tries to fuck me, hit me. Uh, this is absurd, yeah um I have a few comments.
Speaker 1:After we watch this, I'll I'll express something that's happening to me personally there's no shot in hell.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he can get off of this but this is, this is.
Speaker 1:This is a sensitive subject, so if y'all need to take a minute, um, it is blurred, but um, yes, so the graph, the, the video is disturbing, yeah um, but yeah yeah, it says uh, cnn, uh. It says breaking. Cnn releases video footage of diddy assaulting cassie in 2016. Yes, god, go ahead, produce me.
Speaker 3:Sean Diddy Combs. The video, captured on multiple cameras, shows Combs assaulting his then-girlfriend, cassie Ventura, in a hallway at a Los Angeles hotel in March 2016. A lawsuit filed by Ventura in November last year and settled the next day referenced actions that seem to match those seen in this video. There is no audio. According to the complaint, combs became extremely intoxicated and punched Ms Ventura in the face, giving her a black eye, which, according to the lawsuit, prompted Ventura to try and leave the hotel room.
Speaker 1:The surveillance video obtained by CNN begins as she enters the hallway.
Speaker 3:The complaint says as she exited, mr Combs awoke and began screaming at Ms Ventura. He followed her into the hallway of the hotel while yelling at her. The complaint goes on to say he grabbed her and then took glass vases in the hallway and threw them at her Music mogul, sean Diddy Combs. The video, captured on multiple cameras, shows Combs assaulting his then-girlfriend. Cassie Ventura.
Speaker 1:He's a fucking pig. Thank God this came out. It sucks. It took this long to come out. It sucks. It took her a long time to get away from it. I have never been I have experienced something similar like this with my narcissistic ex, where he would swing on me and I'd fight back, and I never been in a abusive relationship like that before. And what Diddy did to Cassie was something my ex would do to me While I'm down. He would try to kick me, he would throw things at me, he would destroy things. It's just.
Speaker 1:it's like an adult temper tantrum, fucking narcissistic pieces of shit um I mean in terms for me and I see, because I've seen, I have seen people, I've seen women beat.
Speaker 2:I've had to witness it just in my own personal life. Uh, with situations I tried to, I personally have tried to assault somebody who was hitting somebody who shouldn't have been hit. Um, it's, it's one of the things that it's difficult to talk about it because we have the, we have the benefit of hindsight, we have the benefit of not being in the moment having certain things happen, because we don't know how would, how we would react in said moment. And the only reason why I'm saying that is because, you know, uh, initially seeing this, it was like shocking. I was like damn man, why did she wait so fucking long? Like why?
Speaker 2:did like tell you why, like why did you not say something sooner? And I also get why you wouldn't. You know, and unfortunately her this was in her career. Yeah, when she was trying she was, and she loved him, steve, you know, she loved him I don't want to go into the love thing because I always feel that sometimes like no sam, you want to help a person because you know that they're not well and you love that sam, we have to get rid of love as reasons why to stay. I don't think it's okay.
Speaker 1:I'm just, I'm telling you as a person that went through the same thing, and she's going through it like 10 times magnified, 10 times more, with a man who controlled everything in her life because he had the money, he had the control. Of course, he's a powerful man. I went through it on a smaller scale with a fucking bum and I could tell you that if you're, if she's anyone, if she's any way, like myself or most women, she thought that she could change him. She thought that he needed help and she could help him. I don't think she loved him and she wanted the things with narcissists.
Speaker 1:She was hold on I just want to say this the things with narcissists steve is that they love bomb you and they love bomb you and it's like a drug, because you want that love that they gave you.
Speaker 2:So I don't think that's fair and that's the only reason why you're and I get why you're doing it, but you don't know if she really loved him or vice versa, and also how young she was. This is in 2016. Cassie is not that old. She's younger than us.
Speaker 1:Nah, I think she's our age actually.
Speaker 2:Oh well, either way, that means she was only like 27.
Speaker 1:She was almost 30.
Speaker 2:Okay, well, we can look into that, we can find out. But in terms of that though, I really don't think it was that, I think it was just. I think at that point it was more of like I am fucking stuck there's cause she tried to leave. That too. She allegedly had went to Cuddy's house, Did? He said he's going to blow up his car, and then apparently his car actually blew up. That's crazy. So this had zero to do with love.
Speaker 1:I want this to be abundantly clear, but can you understand how it Zero to do with love.
Speaker 3:I want this to be abundantly clear.
Speaker 1:But can you understand how it? That it have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Yes, I have no, a really toxic one like this with the cheating and the lying and the abuse and the control like real toxic shit. Yes, you know, you know. Yes, Like cheating on each other and going back Like I'm talking real toxicity, like mental issue toxicity. Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist?
Speaker 2:This is a different level of a sick person, is what I'm trying to tell you. But I'm telling you right now I have a firm belief, because I'm not going to speak it as a fact, I'm only going to speak this as a belief. I have a firm belief that, yeah, of course it started off. You know, bright eyed, oh, my God, he likes me.
Speaker 1:Of course, of course it started off you know bright eyed, oh, my God Didi likes me Of course, of course.
Speaker 2:Who wouldn't fall smitten to that?
Speaker 1:He showered her. He loved her.
Speaker 2:Like I said, she had been trying to get out for fucking years yeah, I believe you For years and years, okay. So when that?
Speaker 1:so when I'm almost sure when that happened, I promise you there was no love there I, I, so I'll even give you this that that's also another version, so you could try to get away from a narcissist. What did my ex do see?
Speaker 1:showed up at my house I understand that kept hit, kept blowing me up, block them, hit me from this number. Show up here. Show up there, like. Imagine someone like that who's like presidential stats with the power and the money that he has. Yeah, she couldn't get away from his ass right, but she did get away eventually. That's what I'm saying I think he got sick of the thing with narcissists because he knew he was gonna get caught eventually maybe that and my theory.
Speaker 1:I'm just gonna say my theory thing with narcissists after they've sucked the literal fucking life force out of you and you have nothing to give to them anymore. When you let's say, cassie, actually, because I had a point when I was fucking with my ex at that, things he did to me, things he would say I wouldn't even react, I'd be like, oh okay right, I understand that so when you don't, when they don't get that reaction, when they get ignored, it like is, like the is worse than death for them, it's like the worst thing for them.
Speaker 1:So when she no longer could give him a reaction that he wanted, he was done. So he said bye. I don't think he thought in a million years, because of what he did to her throughout the years, I didn't think I don't think in a million years he thought she was gonna come out and finally seek some justice because he probably, like I, got this bitch scared.
Speaker 1:She know what I'm capable of right up, kick cuddy's car, but blah, he didn't think that she allegedly he didn't think that she had the balls to do what she's doing right and that's why he settled so fast.
Speaker 2:But now that that came out and now, mind you, the hotel like they're also now liable for this shit as well, because they had the fucking footage, yeah, so now they got to find the motherfucker who hit it.
Speaker 1:Look how psycho he is. This nigga was in a towel beating her ass.
Speaker 2:Well, sam people knew this shit already. This shit has been. I'm not shocked, I'm not either, it's just still shocking, maybe because I'm triggered.
Speaker 1:I've been through this. It's just so when certain things that I can remember in my life, that, that, that- I identify with it hits super fucking home to me.
Speaker 1:It's really hard to watch. Um, I'm, you know, I I feel like I've done the work and I'm healed, but I can't help what still triggers me. You know what I'm saying. And it's a hard watch. It really is, and but I'm not surprised. None of us were surprised. We're just like shocked that it came out. We all know the truth that diddy's a piece of shit, that he's a perv, but we never in a million years thought he was gonna see it in four fucking k every healed room, every healed womb, wound, every healed wow, I'm having a real, I'm trying to get deep, real quick.
Speaker 2:Yeah, every healed wound, yeah, leaves a scar so you're never really over it. So it's always gonna something like. That's always gonna trigger you. It's never gonna, ever gonna go away. You know, it's just like when people bring up race for no reason. It's always triggering to me because, again, I grew up with actual racist shit. Um, from both sides, none of you I told you this.
Speaker 1:No, it's like I never in my 30 fuck, 35 years and I dated him for like a year, a little less than a year. It was a year of hell. I never in my 30s, you know, in my 35 years, ever been in an abusive, toxic relationship like that, ever. I mean, and I'm kind of happy. No, I this is gonna sound a little. It's gonna sound a little crazy and convoluted.
Speaker 1:It's a silver lining right, because I'm happy that it happened later in life and not when I was younger. I could have got pregnant. We could have still been back and forth, him in and out of jail, me still sticking beside him, because I was younger and more insecure than easier to manipulate yeah, easier to like, lie to manipulate. You know, he caught me at a low moment and he got the best of me for sure. But I always think about if I was younger I would be probably still in that cycle, because I have a friend who had a kid with a narcissist and was with him for 10 years. She just got away from his ass. So you know what I'm saying. So it's like. And she got with him really young, like 18. They had kids, you know. So it's like that could have been me. So I'm kind of like you said, it's, it's. It's a little. It sounds a little convoluted, but I guess I'm just happy that I got away from it pretty much.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I got away and I'm able to you should look at it as a blessing, because a lot of people don't.
Speaker 1:It led me where, who I am now. It led me to the person I went now and I feel like I can, if anyone cares to listen, I can help others that are in a narcissistic relationship kind of get out, because literally, steve, just one day I didn't care, I couldn't, I didn't have the fucking energy what do they say when a woman's fed up? When a woman's well ain't too late to talk about it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's it yep it's like running out of love exactly that's exactly what it is, and then kelly, or kelly too, fucking creepy ass anyway um, yo don't be surprised if you see jay-z's name start popping up, oh god, again, allegedly, I know, but um oh, you know who's gonna have a field day beyonce 50 let me tell you something.
Speaker 1:That's why 50 talk his shit and that's why I like him, because he know he he's a stand-up nigga like he's like. Listen, when I disrespect bitches, y'all know it and I don't hit no bitches, so who? I don't rape no bitches. I disrespect them on the internet. It is what it is. You can call me, which I am a misogynist.
Speaker 2:He is a piece of shit. I'm a piece of shit.
Speaker 1:I'm a massager, but I don't rape bitches, I don't rape kids, I don't do no crazy foul shit. He's a real nigga. That's why we love 50 cent. But um, back to what I'm saying. Um, but yeah, just like one, I literally ran, I, my tank was on E I can't even express to you, steve, the, the feeling of he was like a parasite bro.
Speaker 2:Here's Sam Put it this way I had to have, uh, you know.
Speaker 2:You ain't never been in, no shit like that, sam, I had to be removed. We had to be removed in the middle of the night, without telling anybody. Moved in the middle of the night without telling anybody. No one knew where I was at for months because of a situation that you know that happened in the family and uh yeah, so while I've never, but I've witnessed it, you're right, I've never had anybody put their fucking hands in me, because I'll, or just even the mental abuse of of someone, just literally, literally sucking your life where steve, like narcissists imitate I know what a narcissist you know right.
Speaker 1:I do know why they gravitate to people like us, good people not me, people, narcissists, don't come to me.
Speaker 2:I told you that maybe you're able to spot them out, maybe no, it's when, when you just recognize certain shit, I've always reckoned I will go along to get along, until I finally see that this isn't right. So I'll give you a perfect example Going through my little emotions or whatever you know, in my, in my woman hating phase, you know, I was working at Unk's house, you know, before the whole movement and everything, and I was, I don't know, I was listening to fresh and fit and I started noticing something. I was like I was like, okay, well, these guys makes pretty good points on some things, but some things, yeah, there's just, you know, they're just mean with it. But I was like, oh, it's a little entertaining. But then, honestly, I listened to like six hours worth, right, because that's how much free time, that's how much time I had on my hands. It's just sitting there painting an entire house. What else do you do?
Speaker 1:yeah, uh, and I was like wait a minute I was like oh, they're one trick ponies.
Speaker 2:I was like, oh. I was like oh, they're not really what they say they are and the hypocrites you know.
Speaker 2:One of them got a fucking prostitute or something pregnant it was like it turned out not to be true, or I think she aborted it uh, so I was like she had receipts, so here's my thing but I've noticed I've always been able to notice stuff like that where it's like you can't all right, even if I'm not up on the facts, I just when I just know I know I can't always explain it I go, I just fucking know I'm not mad at that and um, I, I think that's why I've never had like a narcissist Cause I'm I'm very fast to fucking call out I'm like yo dude like, and they do not, that's not what you said.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah said yeah, yeah, like you're saying all the da, da, da, da, da, like I'm like, wait, that's, that's not true at all do not like to be called out, I know, and that's why I don't have them around me no, they can't.
Speaker 1:They can't trick you, they can't.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying truth is the kryptonite to narcissism, so as long as you're fucking actually telling the truth and being who you really are scumbag at all, if you really are even if you're a piece of shit, I respect the piece of shit. Who's honest that he's a piece of shit?
Speaker 1:yeah, but narcissists aren't, but I, I have no respect, I know I've.
Speaker 2:I've never liked diddy, ever, ever, ever, ever. You know like don't get it twisted. I've liked the music.
Speaker 1:Yeah, him, oh no him, even like making a band, he was fucking but it wasn't even necessarily just that. I'm just saying that was a a little tiny piece of like. Do you know, when I knew he was full of it that vote or die shit when they.
Speaker 3:When he started getting into the political shit, I said oh, he's one of those.
Speaker 2:I said yo he's, I'm like he's a fraud. I was like all of them are all of them hold that thought, because we gotta take a break and we're back so I I I wanted. I'm glad you got your shit on and I hope that she, because you know, just because she's yeah, just because I've been there, I know.
Speaker 1:And most women have, and even though she's in this new relationship with kids and a husband, who knows if she's fully healed?
Speaker 2:Most of us. I don't think you ever fully are. You know, sometimes you go into relationships you're not fully healed.
Speaker 1:I wasn't. When I got with producer bae in the beginning, he'll tell you that all I kept talking about was my ex. How awful he was, I was my ex. How awful he was, the things he did to me I was going through I was not healed and then, finally, I just stopped. I don't even mention him anymore, unless it applies to something like this, like my baby jesus yeah, who wants to hear about that motherfucker anyway yeah, bum yeah, yo and my fine ass gave a bum ugly motherfucking chance.
Speaker 1:what did? What did he do? Traumatize me, the fuck.
Speaker 2:Anyway, he lost his blessing Sam.
Speaker 1:He will never get a blessing. Narcissists aren't good people, steve. They don't deserve blessings. They need to be put on a secluded island with other narcissists and they can make it work. Because I again I've talked about it on the pod he's in jail right now and again I fear for the next female that has to deal with him. I feel I fear for her very much because he gonna get the right one one day, hopefully, because either they gonna kill him or he's gonna kill them. That's how bad he is.
Speaker 2:Yeah, anyway, fuck that nigga I don't even know how you can live like yourself, like I don't know, but someone like him, I just can't god forgive me.
Speaker 1:Someone like that needs to stay in prison like they don't need to get out. I women speaking of cassie, like women just aren't protected, and and and how many? I told you when I found out that he'd been arrested a multitude of times for domestic violence. Why is he out on the streets? You know what I'm saying? He clearly he has an issue. He has a history of abusing women. So I fear for any woman that deals with him. I really do. Nobody, no matter how much, how shitty they may be, doesn't deserve to be treated like that used, lied to, embarrassed like nobody deserves that shit.
Speaker 2:So good luck to whoever adds up with them. Nobody hopefully in that I also wanted to ask yo, I was listening to something earlier in a, it was a. It was a pretty good question. Um, you know, with you now being a step mom and all pretty much, I asked cause it's something that I've even thought about too Do you think that it's more important for a child? So all right, do you think it's more important for a daughter? Who is it more important for?
Speaker 1:To have a father figure, to have a father figure in their life actively, a son or a father.
Speaker 2:A son or a daughter.
Speaker 1:I said son or a father. I said son or a daughter. Yeah, I said son or father. I said, uh, son or daughter? Um, see, I can only really speak because I don't have a father and I've met wonderful men, um platonically, and dated that that um were only raised by their mother, and then I, oh god, and most of my friends concluding myself don't have fathers and we're, you know, we've all had screwed up moments with referring to dating and men, you know. So I personally think that a father is way more important for a daughter. It gives a. That's her first love. That is the man that's supposed to protect her from all these disgusting men in the world. That's supposed to protect her from all these disgusting men in the world. That's supposed to teach her how she should and show her as well, you know, in regards to their, you know, him and her mother, showing her how you're supposed to be treated as a, as a wife, as a girlfriend, as a mother as a woman as a woman, straight up.
Speaker 1:So I can't. Yeah, I as a woman, as a woman straight up, so I can't.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I, I personally think it's way more important for women, I agree. Yeah, I, I completely agree. I think it's more important for the uh child to, or for the father to. It's more important for the daughter that the dad is in their life that the father is present than if it was just a boy, which again, yes, guys, we all know that's important but it's important to have both parents but let's look, you know, reality is that most of us don't have dads.
Speaker 2:I'm only working with the question. Yeah, uh, because I I completely agreed with it and for the same reason that the gentleman had said it was because, um, you're the only man that's ever gonna be in her life who wants nothing from her that's a fact.
Speaker 2:That only wants the best all you want is for her her success and happy and succeed and succeed and just be happy that's so true like every other man that's gonna come into their life, is wants something, and we all know what most of the something is, so um you think so though, because I you know I got including you on my.
Speaker 1:I've got so many guy friends sam don't get it twisted like that have never tried that.
Speaker 2:I kick it with that, all this other shit like to sit there and say like I don't find people in my life, even just as friends, as attractive. I'd be lying to you if I if I said that. But I also value the friendship more than I value the cost of just getting some pussy, because that could fuck up everything. And, with all due respect, I respect the friendship more than I respect pussy. That's what it is. I respect friendship more than pussy.
Speaker 1:I don't know, that's what it is. I just I respect.
Speaker 2:You're, not some fucking pussy bandit like I'm sorry, I just don't need it. I'm not drake, I don't need to steal pussy from people.
Speaker 1:I don't need none of this kids and I don't need to do none of that stuff.
Speaker 2:History of young women yeah, you know, oh, yeah, oh, you know what I'm just saying because, uh, trust me, the young women thing, it's gonna keep going back further and further to all your idols it's not, and it really is sean with drake, like I've totally forgot about when he all I gotta say is alia yeah, yeah, I totally forgot about drake.
Speaker 1:And uh, billy billy, billy, eilish her and I can't remember and and the girl who played 11 from um, from uh, stranger things I've never watched it.
Speaker 2:I tried to watch it. You know what I'm talking about the girl.
Speaker 1:She had the shaved head and she has the powers, but I totally she's australian.
Speaker 2:She's like british, I think I think she's aussie oh maybe, uh, because I actually saw an interview with her and she's like yes, her her oh yeah, she was like she's aussie 14?
Speaker 1:yeah, he had her. What are you doing as a 30 something year old, a 14 year old little girl's number? Yeah? I think he was 32 at the time yeah, it's not like you got her number for your 14 year old daughter to get like to, to connect with her like you're.
Speaker 2:You're talking to her about well, according to kendrick, she got, he got one. I believe it well, I believe it but I'm just saying like because pusher t would have found out already. Oh true, he already blew up the adonis, that's true.
Speaker 1:Yeah, adonis, yeah he did, yeah, he did. That was a good one, that jake, uh. But you know, it's like what. Why drake? You're on nasty notice for that, like why. Why would you have a 14 year old girl girl's number? No, even if she's famous.
Speaker 2:I plan on being an active father. I'm sorry that ain't happening I know.
Speaker 1:But I'm sure her that's the thing, her parents would have found that out any normal parents. Because these showbiz parents with their little yeah, that's a little different, it's different but a regular, everyday parent is going to beat that nigga ass, is gonna block him, he's gonna flip. They're not gonna let her exchange numbers like that. That's why you know what I'm saying. That wouldn't be a thing. You're like the fuck, you have some.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because I remember I told you I'd be in that age where men his age and older would try to I know, I know, yo, yo, fellas, I really you know, fellas, this is for you and I'm really speaking to you. Older, dirty bastards, give it up. It's fucking over. You had your time. It's fucking over. Settle the fuck down. Stop trying to pretend like you're fucking 20 years younger again Talking to these. Yo, I see it even at the fucking store.
Speaker 1:Well, you see, remember. I don't know if you remember in school, remember, I can give you an exact thing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, there was this fucking gentleman. He kept coming in to harass one of the um, one of the employees, and then it was literally to the point where she went like I was like, yo go away, like don't when he, when he fucking goes out and he's she's only 18 and I'm just like yo, like like you're, how old is he?
Speaker 2:he had to be in his 40s. He has to be. He's older than me, I know that. So I was like yo. When he fucking goes over, I was like go in the back, yeah, out the door, yeah. I was like yo, leave. I was like fucking leave. I'm like this is, this is ridiculous and because I was getting frustrated with him, it's very uncomfortable because, it's uncomfortable.
Speaker 2:You're making her feel uncomfortable and you're just a dirty motherfucker like uh, yo, let me just like. What are you? What are you trying to holler at her for? Yeah, what are you fucking?
Speaker 1:doing? Because he can't get women his own age, women his own age. You know he's a fucking loser bum. That's why young. That's why older guys talk to younger women. Because you can't pull that shit over older, mature woman who got her shit together's eyes. You can pull that shit with some little ass girl. I actually disagree with that, sam.
Speaker 2:I actually think that it actually works on both.
Speaker 1:It depends on the individual.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah I'll give you that, but. But. But that wasn't the point you were she was. He was already told. No, oh, he was already told. He knew how old she was. Oh, and he thought that man oh, you have a literal kid, that's crazy to me, like it started, because it started outside and then when she came back, she's like steve, like this, fucking guys, he won't leave me alone. So, of course, you know, devise the plan, baby, let's go, let's get you safe.
Speaker 1:You know, because I was like, whatever, I keep a knife on me, I'm glad that you, you, you stepped up because more and more people, more and more men, because nobody deserves like nobody.
Speaker 2:Period like once you just hear no, fucking be dead with it, be done with it, just fucking end. It's like you know what. Thank you, sweetheart, have a nice day. Just fucking dead it. This is why I fucking like I'm like hold on, hold on like this is where I fucking just despise dudes, because sometimes the no is all I get that, sometimes it does, sometimes it's that that happens.
Speaker 2:But if you don't understand context and body cues and shit like that, she's because I promise you right now, sam, she wasn't giving off, oh no this is adorable this was no, seriously get the fuck away from me. Yeah, once you see that fellas, you just leave them the fuck.
Speaker 1:They don't, they don't, they keep trying, and you know what I, I, I I hate y'all niggas.
Speaker 2:I hate you motherfuckers. You make it hard for motherfuckers like me who genuinely will go out like hi, how you doing? I just wanted to introduce myself. Ah, now here we go again. You fucking pieces of shit have blocked a lot of girls blessings from passing me up because of scumbags like you.
Speaker 1:It's true you get tired, like you, a girl make my fucking life harder, so fuck you we can't go nowhere you want to be fucking.
Speaker 2:You got game kind of shit which if you fucking did you wouldn't be macking on fucking chicks half your eight kids anyway literally.
Speaker 1:And if you had?
Speaker 2:that exactly my point, and if you had that fucking kind of game.
Speaker 1:They'd come to you exactly. That's what was my point, but you can't get nothing, so you, you go for the young ones jesus, but I see my theory I'm starting to believe that they know they can't even get with these chicks.
Speaker 1:They, I swear, I swear they just get off, being that the girl just even acknowledges them, like because look at, look at you and look at her, like, why would you ever think? Remember we talked about leagues and staying in a person's league. I feel like at this point, like I want to know the psyche, because you know what's beyond your reach.
Speaker 2:I think feel like at this point, like I want to know the psyche, because you know what's beyond your reach. I think hold on, sam, because as somebody who dates people who are more attractive and successful than he is, women do have the tendency they can't look past certain shit. They have a much better gift for that than I then. Then I'll say most a lot of men do, okay, I will, so I'm gonna shoot them that, but what I'm just saying but why do?
Speaker 1:Why do you got disgusting men that you wouldn't know?
Speaker 2:Because, sam, they need to be put in their place. I just think that they get off at that by other dudes, like dudes, need to be fucking put in their place by dudes who have this shit happen, like, who see this shit.
Speaker 2:Or, I'm sorry, like I couldn't even be a friend, like if I had a friend who was, who was like that, I couldn't be friends with them because you're you're, you're, you're not really kind of moving in an upward trajectory way and I'm sorry, like I only like, even when I'm 60, even when I'm 70, we need to be on an upward trajectory to something.
Speaker 1:Like you shouldn't be the piece of shit. Steve respects women, that's I try to. I really do besides that you want to you know outside of outside of no, I don't want to fight women, I'm just saying if you try to hit me, I will drop you.
Speaker 2:All right, you will. I will not bruise your face. I will not bruise you, I will not physically. You want black dukes? Up black I will not black out and swing on you, but I will drop you, I will restrain you, so you'll just, you'll just yoke her up.
Speaker 2:I will not even my hands will go nowhere near her throat, not, I will wrap my arms around you, yeah and I will fucking lap my legs around you and I will lay down and hold on to you until you a relax, yeah, or b I could get to my phone and call your fucking parents because you are clearly not in a good space. But honestly, sam, I have to be honest, I'm not worried about it. I don't attract women like that. I've only had one woman lay hand on me and that's honestly because I told her to.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and you never explained why. Okay, just make it quick. Make it quick Because I asked you this years ago and you never explained it to me.
Speaker 2:She earned it. Each hit me why. I told her to she she had earned it. Mind you, I told her to slap me. So no, she slapped me first and then I guess it felt great. So she did it again. Face, yes, Very hard.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she looked like a straw, I deserve it. And I told her I was like, all right, I deserve it.
Speaker 2:Now the third one, that was the punch. Okay, I was like, okay, that hurt. I was like I didn't quite deserve that one. I was like all right. I was like all right, stop. I was like I deserve, but I did deserve it.
Speaker 1:So, um, I mean, but that was the only time. Oh, I'm sorry, no, there was my one. There was one other woman who we had, a friend of ours, girlfriend. No, what, oh that? Yeah, you never explained what that was about, that you told her to slap you. Oh, I can't share that. I can't share that on here. Okay, no way, okay, no, I can't share that. I can't share that on here.
Speaker 3:Okay, no way, okay no, I can't share that I can tell you after, but I can't tell you why.
Speaker 2:But I'll put it this way had she not hit me, uh, those cops that were around the corner would have been taking people away okay, okay, um, damn steve.
Speaker 1:So you took one for the team with that one pretty much.
Speaker 2:Sure, it had nothing to do with you. Okay, I got it. I got it. I think I know when you tell me I think I know what it is. I just knew it was better. Hit me, honey, just hit me. She gave me a good one.
Speaker 1:She gave me a good one. Listen, don't get it twisted y'all. Listen, don't let the pretty faces fool you. We be strong when it comes to anger.
Speaker 2:There's some sluggers. You know what I'm saying? I'm not going to lie Like, yeah, it hurt.
Speaker 1:And my ex remember how big he was, hit like a bitch. Anyway, if you like this episode, make sure you like this episode, make sure you subscribe, make sure you comment down below and make sure you share. Make sure you stream stream as well. We need those numbers back up. So we're instilling all streaming platforms minority plus one podcast, all right all right.
Speaker 2:So in rat being up, well, first thing before we wrap up, are you good, because I know you got emotional, you okay?
Speaker 1:oh no, I'm perfectly fine you sure?
Speaker 2:yeah, all right yeah, no no, no, I'm fine, I'm talking as a concerned friend.
Speaker 1:No, no, I'm good, I'm totally fine. I'm totally fine, I like I. I stand by what I said. Like a bitch, you can't be that fucking big no, I agree, you can't be that big and hitting like a bitch now like shit.
Speaker 2:I should have been knocked to the floor, fucking cold yeah, you didn't even take out my, my, my people's champ. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, for real, like that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1:You couldn't even take her out I know she was whooping your ass, like from what I heard, no, she was. She was beating his ass.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she was putting the paws on him.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she was beating his uh, shout out to the champ, the people's champ.
Speaker 2:You know who you are. You know who you are, I'm forever. I'm always gonna be you, always. You can always ride shotgun with me.
Speaker 1:I was so I felt so bad about that. That's why she always had a special place in my heart, but even more than when that happened.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know who you are, yeah, anywho. So, in wrapping up, I'm your host, steven, I'm sam crystal and, as always, please stereotype responsibly. Don't forget to like, share, comment, subscribe and we'll be back next week with another motherfucking episode. Peace, peace, peace.